can any body tell me how is the nature of all finnish woman

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Post by villager » Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:03 pm

rinso wrote:It's the same as women elsewhere.
Only here they seem to be more successful at it.
what is it that they are successful at :!:



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Post by Upphew » Sat Apr 03, 2010 12:02 pm

villager wrote:
rinso wrote:It's the same as women elsewhere.
Only here they seem to be more successful at it.
what is it that they are successful at :!:
Putting men where they belong... under their thumb!
See for example: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finnish_Co ... l_of_State + the president
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the nature of all finnish woman

Post by ajdias » Sat Apr 03, 2010 1:56 pm

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Post by tiago » Sun Apr 04, 2010 9:20 pm

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I think I know you, António. I have been checking that you have posted more messages here than in lusofin....
What the hell is wrong with you.... let`s improve lusofin to be even more useful than Finland forum...at least for the portuguese community :ochesey:

See you in Lusofin 8)


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Post by Tiwaz » Wed Apr 07, 2010 10:32 am

Mook wrote:
:D I've certainly observed it!

The best advice is to look at how the Finnish men deal with it - you can give a certain amount of rope, but then at some point you have to be strict.

Good Luck...
It is question of sensitivity.
If we think of men as dogs, foreign men often can come across as those little dogs which make up what they lose in size by barking a lot.
Essentially trying to be making decisions in everything.

Finnish men have learned to be the big dogs which bark rarely.

Difference is, women get used to constant noise, but when you let them make all the little decisions (who gives a crap what shade kitchen drapes are?) and then suddenly assert yourself on important stuff you can catch them off balance. Making you able to get you will through while she is still in recoil.

Life with Finnish woman is not battle of attrition, it is won by precise strikes at important targets and turtle defense rest of the time.


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Post by Upphew » Thu Apr 08, 2010 12:40 pm

Tiwaz wrote:who gives a crap what shade kitchen drapes are?
She does. And you should too, if you reply "whatever" to question about colours you'll get "you don't care about us!" as reply. Bus as you said... know your battles...
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Post by Finsoninlaw » Thu Apr 08, 2010 3:27 pm

Don't start in the bedroom .
When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or flowers and sent them to her at work?
They are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension. Find and stimulate Her G spot .

Are you in the minor league? - Finnish Women like men who like to lead therefore if you are still in the minor league of men who always put women in the leader spot than you might never be able to please her. Learn to take charge right now and be the leader. Women are only pleased by men who have strong control over almost everything.
Make her laugh- Humor is one of the most important aspect which every woman wants in her man. You simply can not please her unless you know how to make her laugh.
Finnish women are mostly blonds and Blonds aren’t always dumb- If you thought all of them were dumb than you are strongly mistaken. Hair colour does not affect her IQ. She only act dumb to seem cute or get you to spend money on them and if you do that than you are dumb not them.

Finnish Women get jealous as hell- They might deny it but the fact is they get extremely jealous even if their man talks to a random female or maybe a friend. She might pretend to act all nice but inside her jealousy volcano is about to erupt.

Don't share secrets with them- If you have then you are already on prime time radio.

They know when you are cheating- Finnish Women have inbuilt instincts and emotion system which beeps and alerts when their man is cheating. No matter how big of a player you are you would always be caught no matter what.

If you are already hooked to a Finnish woman at the moment count your self lucky , cos you will be glued in love for the rest of your life.


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Post by pierrot » Thu Apr 08, 2010 8:33 pm

Finsoninlaw wrote:(...)If you are already hooked to a Finnish woman at the moment count your self lucky , cos you will be glued in love for the rest of your life.
Yeah, thats why the divorce rates are so high in Finland :twisted: :lol: :lol:
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Post by podzap » Thu Apr 22, 2010 12:08 am

rinso wrote: She probably will be the alpha male in the relation.
Any woman will be the "man" in the relationship, given a weak man who has a low level of testosterone...

I was married to a Finnish woman for nearly 11 years and she was never in any sort of "alpha" position in our relationship.

In the 2 years since I've been divorced, not counting countless one-night-stands, I've had 3 "girlfriends" (still with the 3rd one). Every one of these have been Finnish women, and not one of them has ever tried any sort of "alpha" behaviour with me. Not that I would tolerate it, anyhow, as there are _plenty_ of women available out there. On the contrary, they have all absolutely loved it when I acted in very dominant ways with them.

But to answer the question: Finnish women are no different than any other women; they are just normal women.


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Post by Upphew » Thu Apr 22, 2010 10:17 am

podzap wrote:I was married to a Finnish woman for nearly 11 years and she was never in any sort of "alpha" position in our relationship.
:lol:

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Post by podzap » Thu Apr 22, 2010 12:52 pm

Upphew wrote:
podzap wrote:I was married to a Finnish woman for nearly 11 years and she was never in any sort of "alpha" position in our relationship.
:lol:

Q.E.D.
I divorced her, not the other way around...


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Post by rinso » Thu Apr 22, 2010 4:55 pm

podzap wrote: I was married to a Finnish woman for nearly 11 years and she was never in any sort of "alpha" position in our relationship.

I've had 3 "girlfriends" (still with the 3rd one). Every one of these have been Finnish women, and not one of them has ever tried any sort of "alpha" behaviour with me.
So they were smart enough to manipulate you without you realizing it.
Not that I would tolerate it, anyhow, as there are _plenty_ of women available out there.
Nice incentive for them to invest in a healthy and loving relationship.


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Post by faithslayer » Wed Jun 02, 2010 3:25 pm

hilarious
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Post by zlingen » Thu Jul 22, 2010 6:51 am

Finsoninlaw, did you copy that from some dating guide?

Concerning blondness, do you all believe Finland is "mostly blonde"? I was looking at the so-called Blonde Map of Europe (http://strangemaps.wordpress.com/2007/1 ... of-europe/), and it claims that as of December 2007, as many as 80% of Finns are fair-haired. OK, I'll give them the fair-haired, but no way are even half of Finns truly blonde in my opinion. I can really only think of maybe 10 people out of 50 here where I work, for instance, that are truly blonde. This may be somewhat exceptional considering this is a science/technology company, but outside of work I don't believe even close to half of Finns are blonde.


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