Divorce question

James__ · Post by **James__** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 6:55 am

Not getting divorce after all so this question is irrelevant.

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Flossy1978 · Post by **Flossy1978** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:32 am

The divorce still goes through.

James__ · Post by **James__** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:34 am

AldenG · Post by **AldenG** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 8:58 am

Umm, because in the future you're going to need her to agree to something you can't foresee at the moment.

When something is inevitable, it is better karma to handle it with good grace.

Divorce is hard enough. Pissing off an ex-to-be unnecessarily is just dumb. So is doing things that can later be made to appear to show you in a bad light.

Or you could just learn these things the hard way. Many take that route.

James__ · Post by **James__** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 9:19 am

rinso · Post by **rinso** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 10:12 am

If there's a need to sign anything at all.

Maybe so that you're informed about the situation.

James__ · Post by **James__** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 10:21 am

Upphew · Post by **Upphew** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 3:55 pm

James__ wrote:Okay, so basically if I don't sign no harm will be done. She can proceed without issues.

Yeah, but no. If you don't sign them then the summoner must come and get you to sign them. Tax money well spent, not.

edit. why not make things even more expensive and hard and try to avoid the summoner so the coppers must come and catch you?

AldenG · Post by **AldenG** » Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:45 pm

James__ wrote:
And what if I'm not the one who started doing things with bad grace.

After the age of about 16, it stops being relevant.

James__ · Post by **James__** » Sat Nov 28, 2015 1:20 am

James__ · Post by **James__** » Sat Nov 28, 2015 1:28 am

Anyway idea is not to have a revenge or something, I simply won't be availabile at the time.

rinso · Post by **rinso** » Sat Nov 28, 2015 8:08 am

We live on different continents. I really doubt police could get involved there.

Your name might end up in a register that can cause inconvenience when crossing a border.
(don't know how seriously they take a refusal to sign. probably depends on the situation)

James__ · Post by **James__** » Sat Nov 28, 2015 2:47 pm

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