I am in a relationship with a Finn for close to two years now. We haven't met in real life yet, though there are plans of doing so as soon as we get the funds. I wanna be with him and live in Finland but I am clueless at what to do. I'm from the Philippines and have no idea how it can work out for us. I'd rather have us be together in Finland without getting married first. He can't stay here since a student. We are low on funds so I don't really wanna travel a lot. I have a lot of questions, and I hope someone can answer them for me.
1. How easy it is for a Filipino to get a visa to go to Finland for vacation? Aside from enough money for plane tickets, do I have to have a certain amount of money in my bank account to make me eligible for a visa? I do have enough money for plane tickets. According to the Finnish embassy website to the Philippines, "In general, according to the local Schengen practice in the Philippines, we do not issue visas to applicants who have not met his/her host." Do I need a host? Can I just say I'm going for a vacation?
2. Given question 1, would us meeting here be an easier option for us?
3. Re: question 1, if I'm successful in going to Finland and want to stay there, do I have options so I can stay there without having to go back to my country? Should I just get a job there first and apply for residency? I do have a degree. Note that we're probably not gonna get married.
4. I'm 20 years old and have a degree from my country. Is studying in Finland an option for me? How much funds do I need to be a student in Finland? What should I do?
5. So what's the best way to do this? We meet first, be apart again, and work on being together? Or is there a chance we can be together in Finland for long term in our first meeting? Either by me being a student there, or working?
Basically, I'm finding a way to be in Finland with my boyfriend, either by studying or working there. I really just need options right now. We're low on funds and have never met before, so we don't wanna rush into getting married right away. I realize that that's one of the easier ways for us to stay together but he's not willing to do it. I'm very confused and getting hopeless about this. :\ Any help will be greatly appreciated.
