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by Peregrino » Sat Apr 18, 2009 11:40 pm
Just be yourself. Most finnish girls are on the smartside and they´ll only laugh the soul out of theirselves if you go with a prethought attitude, I mean, just be yourself. Most of the finnish girls, at least in Helsinki, tend to be a bit know it all so don´t try to be smart, they´ll propably outsmart you with their first sentence. Now, don´t get me wrong, girls in Helsinki are sympathetic, they usually are, and half the snob what they are in Sweden for example and this is the point in a finnish girl: there is a small cowgirl from countryside in each and every one of them. They do pity men too, so act cool but not snobbish and try to figure out some easygoing and universally accepted small talk themes to have a chat with them. Finnish girls hate to be posessed, don´t be predatory on them so don´t follow them around in the campus or where ever, just smack on them casually and invite them for a coffee or whatever in the campus (or where ever you are) cafe. Finnish girls tend to have certain distrust on men who are openly loudvoiced, huge in manners, pompous, and kind of selfsufficient. Finnish girls like to be treated like a woman, a Woman with a huge W! They know only too well (this is their opinion) that they deserve every bit of respect and level treatment there is, and why should it be otherwice? They too are usually the man in the family, get this straight, goes the saying ... Finnish girls go out too without their men, in a girlgroup, so get used to it. It´s not that you´re not invited (well, you´re not) but that´s the way it goes, they feel like they don´t belong to their men, they have their own personal life where a boyfriend has a very limited veto-right. This doesn´t mean they won´t come back to your place the next day and have a romantic lowlighted dinner with you and then ... and then ...
Well, I guess they are independent, menpitying Lara Crofts, but thats just the beginning. Get to know them, they´ll give you the trip of your lifetime!
Here you go, have a good time in Finland, and date finnish girls. You´ll have the time of your life.
First of all, as mentioned before, if you just want to get laid free-dating costs much more than "escorted" ones. 
Usually each place has a different customer profile. Some places are gathering points for people who already know each other. You will have very little chance to join them. Places where all the people stand are better. Don't waste your time with the girls sitting around a table... Be a good observer, two or three girls without a male company would be a good bid, cos it is likely that they also came there to find dates. The best is a girl who is left alone (without male company) in a group 
Try to make eye contact with your target. Most of the time second eye contact means a green light for a closer interaction. The rest is up to your imagination and proceeds spontanously. There is no magic sentence to impress a girl...
