finnish flirting

[crunchy]

Don't you guys be jealous now!

.. The "famous Hank" can make someone shy, now and then. Even me.
But as there is always a next time..!

[camelia]

Hello

I am really interested in the anthropology so I was asking to myself a lot of questions regarding the difference between my country (Italy) and your country (Finland).

There are a lot of mix couples: italian men with finnish girls (but after a lot of time there are a lot of divorces too..)

So I was wondering what about italian woman and finnish guys?
The situation would be totally different ... and it is also very rare...

I have met a finnish guy but I have to admit that it is so difficult to speak with him and I do not know what to do...
but I am really curious to know him a little bit more...
Is there any kind of bad stereotypes in Finland regarding the italian women? I mean... do you think a finnish man could be interested in an italian woman?

What do you think?

[EP]

Well, one of my son´s (Finnish) friends just married an Italian girl.

[Mölkky-Fan]

Is there any kind of bad stereotypes in Finland regarding the italian women?

[camelia]

Well, one of my son´s (Finnish) friends just married an Italian girl.

ahahha Really? do they get on well with each other?

I know that everything is different from person to another person... but I feel more similar to french or spanish even with german.. I am a little bit afraid that finnish are so different
Do they like to be called or... I do not know to talk?? Ot do they think we talk too much compare to the Finnish culture!!!

[camelia]

Finnish males are just shy. That "being around the bush" is just direct result of it.

mmmm so how could they feel in a city with a lot of people?

[camelia]

and another questions
do they usually prefer women from their own country?

[FinnGuyHelsinki]

and another questions
do they usually prefer women from their own country?

In general, most people prefer someone with whom they have much in common. It's the same in every country and not just a matter of accessibility, a successful long-lasting relationship requires a similar outlook on a fundamental level. Finnish men couldn't care less about the nationality of a woman, if they otherwise are interested.

[camelia]

ok so no chance

[FinnGuyHelsinki]

ok so no chance

Be yourself and do what you do, there's really not much more to it. If you feel like calling someone, then call, if you want to talk to someone, then go and talk.

[camelia]

Thanks you are right... Thanks a lot

[Pursuivant]

do they think we talk too much compare to the Finnish culture!!!

Don't talk, use the time for doing.

[camelia]

What do you mean?
come on .. I am a serious girl...

[Rick1]

Then you just fit in.

[camelia]

Yes...
It is only that I am so thrilled and I do not know what to do.. !!!
Anyway I'll see... and I also think that finnish guys are funny as well
They use a different kind of humour from the italian men but it is still humour ... it is a cute humour!