finnish flirting

[Pursuivant]

If she shows up in Finland someone better grab her

[Kutittaa]

I'm sure the Turks will probably grab her... especially if she dresses the same way that she speaks.

[Kieran]

This is possibly the worst way of going about a 'cry for help' that I have ever come across...

You're obviously in love with this Finnish bloke and you can't handle him keeping you at arms length because you want him to love and share but it frustrates you that he wont let you in... So rather than admit you are hopelessly in love with him you slander him and his country.

You would probably get some sympathy and good advice for your situation if you weren't being such a bitch to everyone.

Your hostility is just a defence mechanism, deep down you're just a scared little girl.

You are more transparent than you think, try taking that chip off your shoulder and ask for some help, you will get it.

[Upphew]

2> I just wonder what you imply by someone better grab me. must mean kidnap, rape and murder.

Marriage, kids, debt. But that sounds just as fun as kidnap, rape and murder.

4> i dress nice.

If by nice you mean skimpy...

5> hmm, your attempts at insulting me just don't register as insults at all. they're weak as water =/
*sigh, eyeroll, hand on hip* can't you do better than this?

Weak as water... tell that to Grand Canyon.

to conclude, to any girls out there i will say, don't bother with a Finnish guy. if you're not used to the cold, just don't go there.
you'll get frostbite (hurt) =p

To conclude, to any boys out there i will say, don't bother with Irish damsels. If you're not used to bimbo-jerseyshore-chav, just don't go there. You'll get stroke (hurt) =P

[Pursuivant]

2> I just wonder what you imply by someone better grab me. must mean kidnap, rape and murder.

Marriage, kids, debt. But that sounds just as fun as kidnap, rape and murder.

So you havent been watching "big fat gipsy wedding" then?

[Tiwaz]

Old-fashioned, no. Narrow-minded maybe a little tiny bit. Not every person who is forthcoming is putting on a charade. I for one have no idea why people in the forums here are always dropping the "Everyone hates people who talk lots." I for one think that's absolute baloney. There is a difference between being an extrovert and then big noting yourself through means of idle talking !"#¤% 24/7.

What is the percentage of girls who hit on guys that don't talk or look like they talk much?

Speech is silver, silence is golden.
More you speak, less content there is going to be in your speech. Homepathy is false. Things are not made stronger by diluting them.
Not to mention that more you speak, less you let others think and speak as they have to either pay attention to you or ignore you.

Usually a conversation needs to be started somewhere to initiate a search for 'chemistry' between 2 people. If no one says anything how do you get to step 2?

Conversation does not need to mean babbling. Conversation can be quiet, slow paced and intelligent.

Lastly, no one likes a silent statue. In the end every moron gets bloody bored and fed up with silence. Humans are social creatures. We need conversation. Finding the balance between a retard who talks too much and is putting on a charade and a person who is naturally conversational is the important underlying issue.

False, there is no balance. There is sliding scale. Finns, and interleukin, prefer people from the statue end.

What is the percentage of women who cheat on their boring husbands with those who are far more outspoken?

Care to present evidence or research on the matter?

Getting my point?

I am getting you have nothing to support your assumption of talkative husbands being cheated less.

As for what studies show? Well that has nothing to do with anything.

It has everything to do with pair forming as they show clear preference on women towards less talkative men as fathers of their family. As far as I know, all cultures find people who exceed the local norm for "chatter" as less reliable. Difference is just where that tipping point is.

[Kutittaa]

You make it sound like you can get through life by only saying a few words Maybe in Finland, but you'd be missing out on lots elsewhere in the world.

[Tiwaz]

You make it sound like you can get through life by only saying a few words Maybe in Finland, but you'd be missing out on lots elsewhere in the world.

Does it matter if I am not elsewhere in the world? I seek to adjust to my surroundings, and try to look for surroundings I enjoy adjusting to. Thus, Finland it is.

Been out there "elsewhere in the world" and found out that I do prefer home.

[Kutittaa]

Well I'm glad you found a place that you're comfortable with, just don't limit yourself to silence too often. I'm sure you have a lot of good things to say.

[Upphew]

2> I just wonder what you imply by someone better grab me. must mean kidnap, rape and murder.

Marriage, kids, debt. But that sounds just as fun as kidnap, rape and murder.

So you havent been watching "big fat gipsy wedding" then?

Oh. My. God. No. In fact it looks like I should look a show or two.

[PantaRei]

^^"

[NicolaeDenut]

As far as I know, all cultures find people who exceed the local norm for "chatter" as less reliable. Difference is just where that tipping point is.

Studies also show that woman cheat their quite husbands with chatters. Females collect genes from the out-speaking ones and make the quite ones rise them. And they are right, the chatters get more girls (fast romances) than the quiet ones, so to build a family she will need to find a guy who will feel obligated to swallow almost anything and rise kids not questioning who the father is.

Books to read (just google them), titles:

The mating mind
Dangerous Man and Adventurous Woman
The Red Queen (the one by Matt Ridley)
The Female Brain
Woman's Infidelity I and II (Michelle Langley)
Why woman have sex

I am just lazy to write the authors, but if you need them just ask