Hi,
My friend had sex with someone(thai girl), she was probably sex worker. He did not use safety and she is claiming to be pregnant by him. What are the law and how should he deal with situation?
How often it happens in Finland - the cases like blackmailing or can she use him to stay in Finland (probably she does not have long permit to stay)? Or, what is your opinion/advise?
*Thank you *
Pregnancy and law
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Obviously it depends on what the guy wants to do, regarding both the child and her. Be there for the pregnancy? Be legally deemed the father even if the child wasn't his? Be legally deemed the father only if the child was his? Try to wiggle out the whole thing?
Generally speaking, if there's a dispute and the mother persists, ultimately there will be a paternity test ordered by the court. Anything short of wanting to agree to everyting the woman wants, getting a lawyer and following his/her advice would be best.
Generally speaking, if there's a dispute and the mother persists, ultimately there will be a paternity test ordered by the court. Anything short of wanting to agree to everyting the woman wants, getting a lawyer and following his/her advice would be best.
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If the pregnancy is real, she will be out of a job after some time. So she could start to harass him for support. (or her pimp could)she was probably sex worker.
(probably she does not have long permit to stay)
Her residence permit might expire before the baby is born and she leaves the country. Then a claim for child support from Thailand can come and he probably has to pay. (long distance denial of fatherhood might not work, at least it will be a big mess)
If she is still in the country when the baby is born, a test will show the baby is or isn't his. If it is his, he has to pay child support. (and get visiting rights)
Off course he can do the honorable thing and marry the girl. (giving her a reason for a RP at the same time) Although I don't think that is wise. A marriage based on a one night stand probably won't last.
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Well, it is blackmailing, it cannot be Honorable marriage. How much is child support in euro per month!
She told me that she has my video of sex too, can I make complain about it to Police? She said that in video, I am also giving her money before sex so it is paid sex and illegal! What do u advise in this case?
She told me that she has my video of sex too, can I make complain about it to Police? She said that in video, I am also giving her money before sex so it is paid sex and illegal! What do u advise in this case?
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Really need help please!
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Paid sex isn't illegal. Google Axl Smith to see what could happen when you record sex videos. As for child support... it depends. There are a lot of threads here on that topic.rose867 wrote: ↑Wed May 30, 2018 11:54 pmWell, it is blackmailing, it cannot be Honorable marriage. How much is child support in euro per month!
She told me that she has my video of sex too, can I make complain about it to Police? She said that in video, I am also giving her money before sex so it is paid sex and illegal! What do u advise in this case?
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So it seems "my friend" is yourself.rose867 wrote: She told me that she has my video of sex too, can I make complain about it to Police? She said that in video, I am also giving her money before sex
And about blackmail, she has all the rights to claim child support (after the baby is born). So if it is yours, prepare fore 18 years of support.
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Stop any and all communication with the woman (do not meet her, do not respond to any of her calls or messages, do not send her anything or call her yourself, directly or via a proxy), consult a lawyer and do not discuss the issue with anyone else.
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To add: that would be a crime, if she had recorded the sex act, without your consent. If you didn't give money then you can guess that she didn't record either, she is just trying to milk you for money.Upphew wrote: ↑Thu May 31, 2018 10:39 amPaid sex isn't illegal. Google Axl Smith to see what could happen when you record sex videos. As for child support... it depends. There are a lot of threads here on that topic.rose867 wrote: ↑Wed May 30, 2018 11:54 pmWell, it is blackmailing, it cannot be Honorable marriage. How much is child support in euro per month!
She told me that she has my video of sex too, can I make complain about it to Police? She said that in video, I am also giving her money before sex so it is paid sex and illegal! What do u advise in this case?
My guess is that she isn't pregnant either, just thinks you're gullible and can be harassed into paying for "abortion" or some other procedure.
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If you're convinced it's a scam to blackmail you, go to the police. Then she cannot blackmail you anymore.To add: that would be a crime, if she had recorded the sex act, without your consent. If you didn't give money then you can guess that she didn't record either, she is just trying to milk you for money.
My guess is that she isn't pregnant either, just thinks you're gullible and can be harassed into paying for "abortion" or some other procedure.
(it also might cause problems for her residence permit)
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and most importantly.... Next time, wrap it before you tap it.