It has taken me a little while to think of what to write in this post but here goes. (also, I'm new, hey!)
I've been studying Finnish for about 7 months or so now but yet I still can't understand the most basic things. I've gone through a number of books but end up getting nowhere. I listen to audio again and again, and speak with my wife in Finnish, but outside basic sentence structures, e.g. "Käyn tänään kirjastossa" or "Mul on sulle kahvia", it's as if my brain blocks everything and I can understand nothing. For example, over the past week I have been listening to this same short dialogue which lasts for about a minute or so and my brain still can't seem to comprehend sentences (I've got the written dialogue here which I can "understand", my thoughts taking a few seconds to realize the structures and such).
But that's not my only problem, liitepartikkelit (which essentially make up the language) drive me insane and nobody seems to be able to explain how they're used in a coherent way. Let's take a small example which I've recently been having trouble with-
"Yyterissä onkin taas liian paljon väkeä"
Here -kin doesn't mean the traditional "too, also", but something tonal which people have said about is an "affirming suffix", whatever that means (does it emphasize the olla, e.g. really is, or... if that was the case, why not just use something like oikeasti?) and then there's taas, which I don't understand there.
Or perhaps something else-
"Paratiisi, sellaista tuskin on olemassakaan"
I won't even get started on how "tuskin" makes the sentence "sort of negative", and how the subject is seemingly in the partitive going against one of the first rules I learned. But -kaan here, my wife couldn't explain it to me, and other people have mixed ideas ("-kaan" adds an emphasis, possibly also a sentiment - from this sentence I could imagine the speaker being frustrated at people who believe paradise exist, or disappointed because it doesn't, whereas without the -kaan it would be just a neutral statement."). Seriously?
Just before my wife told me to just forget it and read on, and not worry about these suffixes, but almost every sentence is like this, when I move onto another sentence it's just the same thing, and the entire language is made up of suffixes so I can't just "not worry about them".
I'm not asking for help on those sentences up there but rather a general- "how does one learn this language?" I want so much to be able to communicate but I'm really getting nowhere and fast.
Any input would be great.