............""""""Caroline wrote:Meksikosuomen: It's great that you are exploring options to live and work abroad, but as you've chosen Finland you're making a big challenge for yourself."""""
""""........I can see what they meant and these days I am thinking that maybe I should have listened to them. .........""""
"""".........However, any foreign experience is valuable in one way or another.......""""
""""".........I think what most people are trying to say is that if you should go for it if you really want it, but if it turns out to be more difficult than you expected (either the bureaucracy or culture shock); don't say we didn't warn you
Of course im absolutely agree with the ""big challenge for my self"" and after days and days of reading the forum, i finally catch the idea.
I have always supossed that i have the ability of hearing for another people advice, that have saved me of making lots of mistakes in my life, and if there are lots of foreigners actually living in Finland, who tells me over and over again that is hard to do it, im not as stubborn such as for ignore their advice.
I think an experience like that is always a priceless experience, it prove your capabilities and put your determination to the limit "in one way or another"
where does determionation, confidence and faith ends, and begins the foolishness and nonsense??i dont know,,, do any body have an idea?? I can choose both of this ways: I can just throw away my idea and and say good bye forever to my wish, thats a silly way i think,, and only a looser can think like that, the other way is like everybody say: Planning a kind of "expeditionary visit" using almost the complete tourist 90 legal days, and not even being loadged in a five stars hotel, but meeting or "facing"in person the real daily life in Finland((and if its in winter, even better dont you think?), and after that, i would be more in the situation of decide if i like it or not,, and say: ""damn i tried""