fintel wrote: ↑Fri Nov 15, 2019 10:43 amIt's not a judgement on his character or your relationship.duygu wrote: ↑Thu Nov 14, 2019 4:37 pmWell, to be honest I don't understand how you make assumptions knowing nothing about his life. Don't worry, they were not both foreigners and Migri already asked him the reason for divorces, for which he had a really solid reason. I am not trying to go to Finland to get money from Kela. I am trying to go there to be with my husband.
Second or third marriage just raises suspicion in the eyes of migri. Take for example, someone can make it a business to bring foreigners into the country and start charging 50,000 EUR per person for this service. Make a trip to South Sudan every year and make a good buck to bring a new husband then get divorced and repeat the same process. Maybe it doesn't happen that much in Finland but surely it has happened in the UK and other countries. I was only mentioning it so you can cover your bases, allow yourself to prepare your case better.
There was a recent question by someone who was handicapped and asked a migration related question and I told them to NOT advertise their disability. This was not to insult them or make them feel bad about themselves because Migri can easily deny a disabled person a resident permit for exactly that reason that they are disabled. Your disability doesn't help you.
Anyone who tells you that dealing with immigration is going to be a hunky-dory happy business IS LYING TO YOU. You need to prepare a good case, show evidence of "love" or deal with APPEALS COURT from ACROSS THE OCEAN in your own country. That's not fun at all, so why not listen to my advice and prepare a good case hmm ? Attach photos of any vacations together, wedding, birthdays, photos, and more photos and love letters if you have them.
I am surprised that they are actually asking for divorce papers, because migri has access to maistraatti records and can easily look into this and they haven't. That right there is a sign of reluctance on part of migri.
Anyways, good luck!
I had already attached many photos, from the day we met until we saw each other the last time. Anyways, I just got my decision in the morning and it is positive.