A lot of posters on here seem to think that I have had easy jobs here in America..... I haven't been employed by anything me other than myself for over 6 years and what's sad is that I have been trying.
I'm going to Finland because there are more opportunities there other than the job thing. However in reference to the job thing I am actually not going there for a year and before that time I am using a language learning program that the U.S. Military uses so upon my arrival in Finland I should at least be on a somewhat conversational level of finish. I also have a sort of language buddy who is from Finland that will be helping me practice. So don't think I'm going over there absolutely blind, that would be silly.
To the person who mentioned Canada....... The reason I'm going to Finland has a lot to do with 1) the fact that I have wanted to for literally years and years so it's been a dream of mine regardless of how many of you think that it's funny, 2) I just got out of a very very emotionally abusive Marriage so it's time that I do what makes me happy. Oddly enough he is from Canada...
I am on here not to be discouraged, and I will not be discouraged, I am on here to gather relevant information in order to spend this year preparing and learning so that when I do get to Finland next year I have my best possible chance.
Also I'm not a "typical American". I do not feel entitled to anything and I do not think my graphic design skills are super amazing but they are skills and a degree non the less. I do not think that if I work hard things will all go right, because I have been working hard for 6 years and nothing has gone right.
I hear what everyone is saying.....getting a job is hard work. It's hard work ANYWHERE and it's going to be especially hard when you're not from there. I am realistic and I know this. It's going to be exponentially harder not speaking the language at all. Which is why I'm taking the steps to spend 5 hours or so a day studying it for a year. That may not make me a fluent speaker by any means, it's a hard language to learn, but it will give me a better shot at finding something than if I didn't speak it at all.
Finding something may be harder than anywhere in the world, however if you remove all of the barriers that are within your power to remove then your chances will improve. Maybe not 100% improve but even a 5% improvement is better than nothing and every little step counts.
Even if I go there, get a degree, and then somehow miraculously manage to land a job at a basic little shop making the bare minimum... That's fine with me.
Some of you seem to think I'm making a ton of money here.... I make literally just enough to pay bills and buy necessities like gas for my car and groceries. So when you say that you don't get paid as much… that's fine... I live incredibly frugally because it's what I have had to do. I'm not used to really having spending money. As long as I can take care of the basics I'm good.
The ones who are trying to discourage me from moving there or laughing at me for wanting to do so… I wouldn't waste your typing… that negativity just doesn't stick to me anymore and has no affect on my opinion or goals. I have a year to prepare and as far as I'm concerned that's better than going over completely unprepared or expecting to learn while I'm there. Even if it's only slightly better, an improvement is an improvement no matter how small. Even 1% better is still better than none.