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Nima.
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Post by Nima. » Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:41 pm

I am writing this on behalf of my friend. She moved to Finland for studies.
She likes cosmetics a lot. A few months ago she has taken some cosmetics items from 2 shops. Last week, one of them caught her and asked for her social security number. They have listed what she has lifted from the shop and asked her to pay 30e. She paid over it.
Now she is so scared and depressed. She doesn't eat, sleep or go out. She promised me (and also to herself) that she will never do it again. Furthermore, she thinks that she will not be able to extend her resident permit. And also she thinks that this shop has given her social security number to another shop, and she will be caught again for her other shop lift which she has done, a few months ago. I don't have any idea how I can convince her. She is so depressed. Anybody knows what will happen to this kind of thing.



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Re: Shop lifting

Post by tavastia » Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:16 pm

What a drama.... First you steel and then you are depressed.... Sorry but what she expected will be? Get some kind of medal or reward? Shop will probably report the incident to police but not much will be done as they don't have resources for so small thefts. If they mark it in criminal record then she may have issues with residence permit.

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Re: Shop lifting

Post by nimap » Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:32 pm

Nima. wrote:
Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:41 pm
I am writing this on behalf of my friend. She moved to Finland for studies.
She likes cosmetics a lot. A few months ago she has taken some cosmetics items from 2 shops. Last week, one of them caught her and asked for her social security number. They have listed what she has lifted from the shop and asked her to pay 30e. She paid over it.
Now she is so scared and depressed. She doesn't eat, sleep or go out. She promised me (and also to herself) that she will never do it again. Furthermore, she thinks that she will not be able to extend her resident permit. And also she thinks that this shop has given her social security number to another shop, and she will be caught again for her other shop lift which she has done, a few months ago. I don't have any idea how I can convince her. She is so depressed. Anybody knows what will happen to this kind of thing.
well, she have been doing that until she was caught? That's sad.

She can ask for mental health counselling if she is depressed. Depression should not be taken lightly, I hope you'll suggest her to see the doctors immediately. Doctors/Nurses in metal health clinics are not there to judge her but help her fight the depression, so feel free to talk to them and explain things without any worry.

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Re: Shop lifting

Post by Oombongo » Tue Jan 05, 2021 12:09 am

Nima. wrote:
Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:41 pm
I am writing this on behalf of my friend. She moved to Finland for studies.
She likes cosmetics a lot. A few months ago she has taken some cosmetics items from 2 shops. Last week, one of them caught her and asked for her social security number. They have listed what she has lifted from the shop and asked her to pay 30e. She paid over it.
Now she is so scared and depressed. She doesn't eat, sleep or go out. She promised me (and also to herself) that she will never do it again. Furthermore, she thinks that she will not be able to extend her resident permit. And also she thinks that this shop has given her social security number to another shop, and she will be caught again for her other shop lift which she has done, a few months ago. I don't have any idea how I can convince her. She is so depressed. Anybody knows what will happen to this kind of thing.
Action -> Reaction. Decision -> Consequence. Cause -> Effect.
Wonderful equations to live by. Sadly, people are too callous and entitled these days to follow them. Must be excessive pollutant in water or bad semen/egg quality running in the family.

That say, this will stick with her for time being. There's a service (paid obviously, can't shop lift that) to check her record if she's tainted before apply for the permit.
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Re: Shop lifting

Post by NukkuMatti » Sun Jan 10, 2021 7:46 am

Oombongo wrote:
Tue Jan 05, 2021 12:09 am
Nima. wrote:
Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:41 pm
I am writing this on behalf of my friend. She moved to Finland for studies.
She likes cosmetics a lot. A few months ago she has taken some cosmetics items from 2 shops. Last week, one of them caught her and asked for her social security number. They have listed what she has lifted from the shop and asked her to pay 30e. She paid over it.
Now she is so scared and depressed. She doesn't eat, sleep or go out. She promised me (and also to herself) that she will never do it again. Furthermore, she thinks that she will not be able to extend her resident permit. And also she thinks that this shop has given her social security number to another shop, and she will be caught again for her other shop lift which she has done, a few months ago. I don't have any idea how I can convince her. She is so depressed. Anybody knows what will happen to this kind of thing.
Action -> Reaction. Decision -> Consequence. Cause -> Effect.
Wonderful equations to live by. Sadly, people are too callous and entitled these days to follow them. Must be excessive pollutant in water or bad semen/egg quality running in the family.

That say, this will stick with her for time being. There's a service (paid obviously, can't shop lift that) to check her record if she's tainted before apply for the permit.
I don't get it, taking so much risk of not getting a residence permit only for some face paint to make oneself look more f'ckable... must be the eggs (either way).. :D

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Re: Shop lifting

Post by Oombongo » Thu Jan 14, 2021 1:09 pm

NukkuMatti wrote:
Sun Jan 10, 2021 7:46 am


I don't get it, taking so much risk of not getting a residence permit only for some face paint to make oneself look more f'ckable... must be the eggs (either way).. :D
Show some respect. She might be an instagram model with x number of followers aka orbiters who're ready to fight to defend her honor. Consider yourself lucky if she even looks at you for a few seconds.
Now subscribe to her $9.99 only fans account, or fly her in to Dubai and elsewhere warm if you are loaded with oil and gold. :mrgreen:
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Re: Shop lifting

Post by NukkuMatti » Sat Jan 16, 2021 9:47 pm

Oombongo wrote:
Thu Jan 14, 2021 1:09 pm
Show some respect. She might be an instagram model with x number of followers aka orbiters who're ready to fight to defend her honor. Consider yourself lucky if she even looks at you for a few seconds.
Now subscribe to her $9.99 only fans account, or fly her in to Dubai and elsewhere warm if you are loaded with oil and gold. :mrgreen:
:lol: :lol: :lol:

But seriously than she would be able to pay for it anyway wouldn't she... unless she has a Pimp...eu I mean Manager that takes all her earnings.. :shock:

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Re: Shop lifting

Post by jack2012 » Sun Jan 24, 2021 2:28 pm

Based on this, I wonder if there is any way for immigrants/expats, one can see his/her record if any -ve is marked on this. For example; any portal by Govt?

Also, I think if anything -ve is done on her record, they would get a letter from Police. If there is no letter from Police then there is nothing to worry!


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