I need advice urgent about my situation please

[Hank W.]

What business are you conducting here, Hank?

Thats my business, innit?

[mCowboy]

so basically Pavlor is here just to troll the forum (as he mentioned in many threads to use this forum as his own amusement by provoking people) and not the help anyone... even his friends.

Sounds like a heck of a nice guy...

Oh come on mCowboy, I do not "troll" this forum at all. If you read what I wrote, you will understand that I did not say that at all. And as for helping people, I do, but I only help when I see it is needed.

You have heck of a cheek saying that mCowboy. Slander can be dangerous so think twice before posting stuff like that again.

so now you're threatening me too?

Wow, you really are a heck of a nice guy apparently.

[Hank W.]

And as for helping people, I do, but I only help when I see it is needed.

We need to retrain your seeing-eye ferret

[Pavlor]

so basically Pavlor is here just to troll the forum (as he mentioned in many threads to use this forum as his own amusement by provoking people) and not the help anyone... even his friends.

Sounds like a heck of a nice guy...

Oh come on mCowboy, I do not "troll" this forum at all. If you read what I wrote, you will understand that I did not say that at all. And as for helping people, I do, but I only help when I see it is needed.

You have heck of a cheek saying that mCowboy. Slander can be dangerous so think twice before posting stuff like that again.

so now you're threatening me too?

Wow, you really are a heck of a nice guy apparently.

I'm a piece of work, mCowboy, but please, forget this pettiness and concentrate on what this thread is about. I have no idea who you are and this is a forum. It is irrelevant if I am a nice guy or not.

Could you offer Zakaria some advice? Just a thought...

[Hank W.]

They will say no because you look crazy.

You don't need to be crazy for them to say no.

[mCowboy]

Oh come on mCowboy, I do not "troll" this forum at all. If you read what I wrote, you will understand that I did not say that at all. And as for helping people, I do, but I only help when I see it is needed.

You have heck of a cheek saying that mCowboy. Slander can be dangerous so think twice before posting stuff like that again.

so now you're threatening me too?

Wow, you really are a heck of a nice guy apparently.

I'm a piece of work, mCowboy, but please, forget this pettiness and concentrate on what this thread is about. I have no idea who you are and this is a forum. It is irrelevant if I am a nice guy or not.

Could you offer Zakaria some advice? Just a thought...

oh yes, on internet you can be whatever you want to be, that's the beauty of it, hence the number of keyboard heroes trolling around the forums.

I've already posted a link to a thread where's contact information about where to find support in domestic issues.

What have you done besides being patronizing? Come to think of it, I haven't seen you offer any kind of helpful information for those who asked for it, only your provos to those trying to help or comment the situation.

[Pavlor]

so now you're threatening me too?

Wow, you really are a heck of a nice guy apparently.

I'm a piece of work, mCowboy, but please, forget this pettiness and concentrate on what this thread is about. I have no idea who you are and this is a forum. It is irrelevant if I am a nice guy or not.

Could you offer Zakaria some advice? Just a thought...

I've already posted a link to a thread where's contact information about where to find support in domestic issues.

What have you done besides being patronizing? Come to think of it, I haven't seen you offer any kind of helpful information for those who asked for it, only your provos to those trying to help or comment the situation.

I said we didn't know the whole story as Goldie decided to slam the guy. That isn't patronising in my books. I do not troll and object to your saying so. You seem to be very selective in what you read, mCowboy. Only yesterday I wrote quite a bit about surviving in winter. Yes, I provoke if I feel the need (like someone has said something that promotes prejudice or the like), and yes, I comment on the situation as this is a forum.

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them. I doubt anyone wants to read your asinine whinging about me and how I am an awful guy. Think about it mCowboy.

[Hank W.]

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them.

Who died and made you God?

[mCowboy]

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them. I doubt anyone wants to read your asinine whinging about me and how I am an awful guy. Think about it mCowboy.

I did so by choice and one sided only, until you started badmouthing me (and Hank) in couple of separate threads recently.

Since when did you become the official voice of FF deciding what people want to read or who should post? That's very patronizing again.

[Pavlor]

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them. I doubt anyone wants to read your asinine whinging about me and how I am an awful guy. Think about it mCowboy.

I did so by choice and one sided only, until you started badmouthing me (and Hank) in couple of separate threads recently.

Since when did you become the official voice of FF deciding what people want to read or who should post? That's very patronizing again.

Good God, mCowboy. No wonder there are misunderstandings on this place. I said "I doubt", which does not mean anything definitive, so hardly the "the official voice of FF deciding what people want to read or who should post".

I have to ask in light of recent activity here: are you challenged in any way, mCowboy? I am being sincere when asking that so don't fly off the handle.

Bad-mouthing? I called you *darlings*... Hardly bad-mouthing in my opinion

[Mark I.]

...That isn't patronising in my books. I do not troll...

B u l l s h i t !

Pity there's no "ignore" -option in this forum. The level of FF would rise if Pavlov's dog would leave this forum.

[mCowboy]

I have to ask in light of recent activity here: are you challenged in any way, mCowboy? I am being sincere when asking that so don't fly off the handle.

Bad-mouthing? I called you *darlings*... Hardly bad-mouthing in my opinion

So you keep on patronizing...

I can accept sarcastic remarks from my friends, however coming from someone who obviously has something against me, they are just snippy personal attacks.

[sinikala]

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them.

So it's do as I say, not as I do?

Practise what you preach dear boy.

What this Zakaria guy needs is a good kick up the arse... nobody had the bottle to say it.

He followed someone that he hardly knows to another country, gets her preggers, is totally dependent on her and is surprised when it all goes tits up?! Crackers.

[Goldie]

I think you used your wife to get a better life in Finland, and now she is on to you!!

Well, that is a constructive comment Goldie, and I believe what goes around comes around, so beware...

Now, if I were with someone, I would hope they wanted the best for me, including a better life.

No one here knows the full story here.

Pavlor, obviously we are not reading the same posts.

What I have a problem with is that:

1. This guy has never been to the doctor with his wife so he is not even sure she is pregnant

2. Makes no mention of getting marriage counseling

3. No mention of trying to find legal employment, and have the employer arrange the permit

4. Snubbed his nose at volunteer work suggested by another poster…which is charity, not work and could possibly help his case

5. Mentions in many posts how to blackmail his wife; yet nothing about consoling her and being there for her, as she is pregnant and will soon have three mouths to feed

And, as for “what goes around comes around!” Well, I can assure you I would never be in the position as this poster. I have never depended on anyone for my livelihood, and I never will!!

[sinikala]

I think you used your wife to get a better life in Finland, and now she is on to you!!

Well, that is a constructive comment Goldie, and I believe what goes around comes around, so beware...

Now, if I were with someone, I would hope they wanted the best for me, including a better life.

No one here knows the full story here.

Pavlor, obviously we are not reading the same posts.

What I have a problem with is that:

1. This guy has never been to the doctor with his wife so he is not even sure she is pregnant

2. Makes no mention of getting marriage counseling

3. No mention of trying to find legal employment, and have the employer arrange the permit

4. Snubbed his nose at volunteer work suggested by another poster…which is charity, not work and could possibly help his case

5. Mentions in many posts how to blackmail his wife; yet nothing about consoling her and being there for her, as she is pregnant and will soon have three mouths to feed

And, as for “what goes around comes around!” Well, I can assure you I would never be in the position as this poster. I have never depended on anyone for my livelihood, and I never will!!

Hurray... a bit of common sense at last.