First I will give you the background:) I am sorry if this is going to be long.
I came to Finland from the US in May. I had spent the last 2 years talking on the net and getting to know my now husband. When I got here he was everything I had always wanted and thought he would be. The plan was I was going to come here for a month and see how things worked out. Well the time pasted all too quickly and I changed my flight to stay another month with him. During that time I had injured my back and went to the local heath care center. They advised me to see a specialist. So I made an appointment. So I go to see the doctor and he tells me that I have a nerve being compressed by a disc and I can not travel. At this point time is running out for me to leave. So we contact the local police and talk to them about me getting my residence permit. We had already decided to get married and started looking into getting all the paperwork.
Well they tell us we can not apply from here for my permit except for certain cases. One being that it would be unreasonable. I had the doctors statement saying I can not fly for a few months. He lso wanted me to have a MRI to determine if it can be treated without surgey or not. So they allowed us to apply from here.
We stated in the paperwork we was planning on getting married within a month and that I have a job lined up already. Well durning that time we had been sent in circles trying to get the paperwork done so we could get married. One place totally forgot about us for 3 weeks. We got a ruling in 2 months instead of 3 and before we could get the papwerwok to get married. So of course they denied my permit and told me that I had 30 days if I wanted to appeal. I was still under the doctors care, and he still did not want me to travel. The guy at the police station was really nice about it and advised us to get a lawyer if was wanted to appeal. So we got a lawer and more paperwork. During which we got married. If it had been 3 months we would have been married and given them the marriage certificate before they ruled. But it never works out like you would want it to

So now we have another doctors note and the marriage certificate and the statement saying that I have work as soon as I have the residence permit.
Well 2 days ago we got a letter from the court saying they want more information. That we havent given them enough grounds to grant me a permit. They have given us 30 days to submit it. Which was dated Dec 22 and the lawyer didnt get it till after the holidays. So we lost more time. The doctors statement expired Dec 31, at this point I have to go ahead and have the MRI before he can write another one. Which I am unsure of what to do. I can have the MRI done on the 16th but I cant see the doctor till the 28th. This will be after the time allowed for me to return the paperwork.
They said that the doctors statement was submitted on the appeal but the first one was submitted with the appication as well. Also they was not happy that we got married after we was denied, but we had started this way before and have all the emails showing that we started it way before. After the Maistraatti screwed around for a month we finally got angry with them they got things together and we was married in 3 days.
We did notice one thing in the documents from Immigration that was submitted to the court They stated that I came over to get married and it was not a short term visit. Which is false information.
At this point I am not really sure what to do. Should I submit more information to the court? Or should I take my chance with my back and go back to the US and submit from there. When I had to fly to Helsinki to get the affidavid so we can get married the flight was only 1 hour and I was really messed up for 3 days at which point we had to fly back. So even that short flight was no fun and very painful.
But I really do not want to tick them off and them deny me from being allowed to apply for my residence permit again. At this point I am still allowed to apply again.
Also I know that if I apply from the states and as for my Passport back I would be able to come for short visits. But after me being here this long would the let me in or would I have to wait awhile?
Also since we are married will I have to have at least $5000 in my back account? Would it have to be in the US or would the account I have here in Finland be ok?
I dont know if anyone has had any issues like this or not, but any information would be very welcomed at this point.
Thank you so very much for your time,
Gina