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Tiwaz
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by Tiwaz » Wed May 14, 2008 8:51 am
okok wrote:i really frustrated that i am left but is this finnish women habit to change husbands? i don't marry her for PR only yes i would like settle in finland but family is also i value. but i am really angry with her, with that f%#&king man, with myself and with some people in this forum
*sigh*
First and foremost. This is not Turkey, this is Finland. Marriage is not arrangement where you obtain property, namely wife/woman which appears to be common concept in some areas of the world.
Here, marriage is agreement between two equal parties. With clause that says that if either side is unhappy with current state of agreement, they can get out from it.
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Travmies
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by Travmies » Wed May 14, 2008 10:13 am
Apart from all politic of this situation..
For god sake!
HE LEFT A SINGLE WOMAN ALONE IN A CAPITAL CITY FOR 11 MONTHS AND BELIEVED SHE WOULD BE WAITING FOR HIM !!
What was he thinking?
He must have a high regard for his own pulling power or an insane ego...
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Hank W.
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by Hank W. » Wed May 14, 2008 10:19 am
Well,,, back in the day I was on the ship... 8 months once in a row
... the divorce took place after I had a lanside job
Cheers, Hank W.
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by Travmies » Wed May 14, 2008 11:02 am
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Hank W. wrote:Well,,, back in the day I was on the ship... 8 months once in a row
... the divorce took place after I had a lanside job
But maybe she was enjoying the single girls life while married, so when you came back it had to stop.
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by Hank W. » Wed May 14, 2008 11:24 am
Something like that probably. You do know what those two porcelain cats in the windows in Rauma mean don't you... if they're looking inside or outside
Cheers, Hank W.
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by Karhunkoski » Wed May 14, 2008 12:05 pm
Political correctness is the belief that it's possible to pick up a turd by the clean end.
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by ravs » Wed May 14, 2008 6:08 pm
hey dude! no offense but it's finnish women that you are dealing with.......... 11 months and no visit ha ha ..... perhaps cultural values played a huge role in your fate!
things are pretty messy up in this north pole
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by graziella » Fri May 16, 2008 12:54 pm
Ow my.....man...It has nothing to do with laws...if she will loose her interest in this man soon, it means that she has lost her interest for you also long time...so, why do you still keep on believing that she has feelings for you....MOVE ON....No laws can help you with that!....and please...if you have really tried to contact her all this time and SHE didn't want to...so, Save a bit of your own pride also!
And the concept of "stolen wife", "take her back", Threatening the guy"....just isn't acceptable in this society! It would be a very fine line close to even commit a crime...so...you better think properly before doing anything stupid!
Please, listen to everyone here, it will just help you!
Deal with the pain and keep yourself out of big troubles!
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by peteh » Wed May 21, 2008 11:35 am
Hank W. wrote:Something like that probably. You do know what those two porcelain cats in the windows in Rauma mean don't you... if they're looking inside or outside
Trip to Rauma then this summer.
Hank. Do I go knocking when the cats are looking inside or outside..
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Tiwaz
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by Tiwaz » Wed May 21, 2008 11:39 am
You know, you should do some groundwork before knocking anyway.
There is always risk that woman over there is not exactly all that pleasant.
First, figure out which houses hold females you do not mind having a few words with. Then start sorting out which have cat looking in correct direction.
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rob34
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by rob34 » Thu May 22, 2008 10:21 am
What happened to the days when men were men and we'd just get drunk, make a scene, get arrested, and then let bygones be bygones???
