have a good day..wanna ask about resident permit.im filipino citizen and im married a finnish citizen..now im starting to complete all my requirements and soon its done.!september would be expected to submit my resident permit..im nervous this time cause before were not married im applying tourist visa then unluckily they refused

my tourist visa refusal before can affect my residence permit application?
im afraid if that so...

i hope and want to be together with my husband and start a normal life..everyday so sick to wait and wait thinking each other,,i miss him so much!!

what the best way should i do?
is it right way i submit my resident permit here my origin country?or is it better in finland with my husband?
what is the possibilities they can refused permit?
is it true about 6months to wait?
im looking forward who know about this...thanks(kiitos)
