Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

Post by caster » Mon Jan 12, 2015 7:25 pm

I am looking for a tunnel that leads me to get another RP on different ground. Not difficult ;)

Work :(
Study :?:
New Love :beamer:

which one suits me ?


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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

Post by Beep_Boop » Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:19 pm

There are two things here:

1. Do you really need to tell her about this now? Just keep waiting until you hear something about your RP. If it's a positive decision, then just continue your life as usual. If it's a negative decision, then you can tell her.

2. If she goes !"#¤% and your relationship will be in danger when you tell her about an honest problem you're having, or share with her you concerns and feelings about your life situation, then is she the right person for you?

Think about those things and make up your mind. It's not really that difficult.
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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

Post by Rip » Tue Jan 13, 2015 12:52 am

A (recent) girlfriend isn't a grounds for getting a permit anyway.

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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

Post by Rip » Tue Jan 13, 2015 3:39 pm

The only way she could help is ny getting married with you, and my advice for her would be not to do it (not now, and not for THAT reason)

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Re: Should I tell my girlfriend about my RP?

Post by Upphew » Tue Jan 13, 2015 4:28 pm

Croco wrote:
Rip wrote:The only way she could help is ny getting married with you, and my advice for her would be not to do it (not now, and not for THAT reason)
What do you mean by getting married?
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