Thanks for all the answers I wasn't here since about a week because I was busy with running to all the official offices.
Now I am better educated about the matter and can tell you what's possible.
The best way for me would be still that he get's a job or finds a place to study.
The easiest way on the other hand is to get married(as most of you suggested already), that I learned for sure.
I am EU-citizen and have a job with unlimited work contract.
They told me in the police station that me being german and he being US-citizen(not sure if it's about german or EU) is a special constellation and the resident permit would be as well the work permit. Also it is easier since I have a regular income and an unlimited work contract.
But for the resident permit to go through we need to get married(since there is no workplace in sigh yet).
Which is the easiest way to work out, as long as I am employed.
The one lady on the phone said they don't check the income of the importing person if he/she is finnish citizen. But they do if he/she is EU-citizen.
She said that I need to earn at least 1700€ (not sure if gross or net) - 1000 for myself and 700 to support him.
The lady at the policestation said they won't check a number but I need to have a regular income and a unlimitied work contract.
Not sure which one is true, since I have to bring my last 6 payslips with me when we apply for the resident permit.
When he comes he also has money(savings) so he doesn't come to get support here.
He has a job in the USA and makes good money.
He just doesn't wanna live there anymore and of course wants to be with me.
I also learned that there are jobs that don't have to be offered to an finnish citizen or an EU-citizen first. Like country side or farm work as well as nurse work.
For example picking starwberries in summer. Sure this is limited but of course brings some money as well. He is willing to do everything and as soon as here is here I will check finnish courses with him and also hygine- and alcohol pass courses.
Next step is still looking for stupy places.
I am optimistic
Thanks for all your help
