hello
can anyone explain tome this in english please?
oleskelulupa uppehallstillstand
Työnteko-akeus UKL
mom
I need advice urgent about my situation please
ADVICE
Hi
good news and bad news , the good news is i received my reisdence permit now ....the sad news is that everytime i find out more lies bout her , she is sick with lies ........she took my money that i received from family ....and she is tellingme that she has to pay for this and that .......and i find out that this things are done for free and when i faced her , she says that she corrupt to get things done quickly ....i dont bleive that ...she hates that i meet other pple ...cuz when i ask other pple they say well this card is free and other card cost such and such ........she doesnt wantme to meet other pple .....she thinks every single person that i met is bad person and she all wanted is i stay with out freinds and dont know nothing .....even she doesnt wantme to study finnish language .....how i am gona communicate with my child???????????.....but the worse is i am so sick of her lies , she lies 24 hours 7 days , her friend are sick of her lies too....
good news and bad news , the good news is i received my reisdence permit now ....the sad news is that everytime i find out more lies bout her , she is sick with lies ........she took my money that i received from family ....and she is tellingme that she has to pay for this and that .......and i find out that this things are done for free and when i faced her , she says that she corrupt to get things done quickly ....i dont bleive that ...she hates that i meet other pple ...cuz when i ask other pple they say well this card is free and other card cost such and such ........she doesnt wantme to meet other pple .....she thinks every single person that i met is bad person and she all wanted is i stay with out freinds and dont know nothing .....even she doesnt wantme to study finnish language .....how i am gona communicate with my child???????????.....but the worse is i am so sick of her lies , she lies 24 hours 7 days , her friend are sick of her lies too....
yes
YES I AGREE WITH YOU THAT IS WHY I SAID I AM SICK OF HER LIES CUZ I KNOW THERE IS NO SUCH WAY IN THIS COUNTRY TO CORRUPT OFFICIAL....AND FINLAND IS ONE OF THE LEAST CORRUPT COUNTRY IN THE WORLD...SO SHE ONLY LIE ALL THE TIME...BUT HEY ....I HOPE OURFUTURE CHILD DOESNT LEARN TO BE LIAR FROM HER....
ANY WAY .....God bless..
ANY WAY .....God bless..
Well, you got your residence permit now, so the immediate problems are solved.
Now you must face the tough decisions how to get on with your life.
Your wife doesn't love you, that's clear and she will leave you.
And reading what she does to you, I think that is for the best.
Your problems are now:
1- how to get money. So try everything to find a job.
2- what to do with your future child.
This is a much bigger problem.
You can try to get custody, but in your situation (no job, no money and no relatives here) it will be difficult. If you have to take care of a baby, you cannot work if there are no relatives or friends who can babysit every day. If your wife gets custody, she might be easy on the visiting, but from what you tell of her, I wouldn't count on it. So prepare yourself for a struggle.
In the end you have to decide how much you are willing to accept and how you want to live your life. That is something you have to do yourself, we cannot help with that.
Now you must face the tough decisions how to get on with your life.
Your wife doesn't love you, that's clear and she will leave you.
And reading what she does to you, I think that is for the best.
Your problems are now:
1- how to get money. So try everything to find a job.
2- what to do with your future child.
This is a much bigger problem.
You can try to get custody, but in your situation (no job, no money and no relatives here) it will be difficult. If you have to take care of a baby, you cannot work if there are no relatives or friends who can babysit every day. If your wife gets custody, she might be easy on the visiting, but from what you tell of her, I wouldn't count on it. So prepare yourself for a struggle.
In the end you have to decide how much you are willing to accept and how you want to live your life. That is something you have to do yourself, we cannot help with that.
yes
first thing i want to do is study finnish.
second i resist the crap living with her until get my self sorted .....well i am not going to take the child away from her but if she is mental ill i definelty take the child and fight for custody.
God bless
second i resist the crap living with her until get my self sorted .....well i am not going to take the child away from her but if she is mental ill i definelty take the child and fight for custody.
God bless
Hello, I have been reading this thread, even though I should be working on my thesis. I just want to say congratulations on getting the residence permit. I would do what tummansininen and bm 50 suggested. Get your own bank account, make as many contacts as possible, know your rights, and prepare your self for any future obstacles. Good luck to you.
can u advice plz
hello
can anyone translate this for me please?
Hei msn ystäväni. Otin osaa jännittävään kilpailuun jossa voi voittaa Supermarketin tyhjennyksen!Kyllä luit oikein. Kilpailu on täysin ilmainen osallistua ja olet mukana arvonnassa 5 minuuttia Supermarketissa, jossa voit kerätä 5 minuutissa niin paljon tavaraa mukaasi kuin ennätät. Sinun tarvitsee ainoastaan vastaanottaa ilmainen uutiskirje Päivän Postilta, MainMaililta ja Kuluttajauutisilta.
can anyone translate this for me please?
Hei msn ystäväni. Otin osaa jännittävään kilpailuun jossa voi voittaa Supermarketin tyhjennyksen!Kyllä luit oikein. Kilpailu on täysin ilmainen osallistua ja olet mukana arvonnassa 5 minuuttia Supermarketissa, jossa voit kerätä 5 minuutissa niin paljon tavaraa mukaasi kuin ennätät. Sinun tarvitsee ainoastaan vastaanottaa ilmainen uutiskirje Päivän Postilta, MainMaililta ja Kuluttajauutisilta.