And, yes, I guess you've expressed the language learning process for native speakers a little better than I did...
Yet, somehow when it came to learning French, it seemed much more complicated. They seemed to throw lots of complicated stuff at us... I'm thinking more and more...partly from what I hear in this forum and from what I've read elsewhere that perhaps the process by which adults are taught languages is a bit over-structured. Probably because of traditional views regarding the education process. What I do now with French is watch TV (enough French channels in Canada, from both Quebec and France, that there is a fair bit of variety) and read occasionally... Seems to work...
I think for most of us the language learning process seems to rely on memory and regular use...Though maybe the "intellectual approach" works too... For example, Cardinal Mezzofanti:
http://how-to-learn-any-language.com/e/ ... index.html
he apparently was fluent in 38 languages and never left Italy!!!...