Goldie wrote:I cannot help that I actually care enough about Oompah and her kids to have enough BALLS to get on this form to post my concerns knowing I will get the S%&# beat out of me. I cannot help that I have a heart, and that it bothers me when I read such words.
Really? I would think that someone who truly cares about someone else would not 1) pass judgment on the way they chose to raise their family and 2) if they really felt the need to proceed with said judgment would not do so on a public forum. I don't think you have "balls" for posting what you did, I think it was incredibly insensitive. Basically, you chose to publicly chastise this woman, whom as far as I know, you have never even met on a topic you know nothing about. Now where is the caring in that?
I realize I am wasting my time explaining this to you, but I am taking the 1% chance that you actually will get what I am saying. Thank god for the ignore button.
Shame on you!! Totally judgemental and covering that with false concern. How many children anyone has, is none of your business, whether or not they're financially strained. If you decide to put off having your kids till you're stable then by all means go ahead but don't for one moment dare to think every one has to do like you do. We all have our own paths to follow, our own lives to lead, the choices we make are ours and you have no right to judge someone else for the lifestyle he/she chooses to live. 