Tiwaz wrote:catchmeifucan wrote:Hank W. wrote:Do you need to?
Well, there lies the problem. Question is "Do I need to?" No, not for my work. I can manage well by speaking English. But, it would be nice to integrate. I try my best. Though, face lot of hurdles. But, I don't give up so easily.
I kind of like this country. And, one more thing, I don't whine about anything just accept as things are and try to follow the rules. Even been to language courses and intend to speak Finnish in the next few years (yes it takes time as I am kind of busy working for my Finnish employer).
See, if you don't even have any clear cut answer as to what you refer to as integration. Just shutup and you stop whining about foreigners.
You make my other Finnish mates look bad.
Think it opposite way.
How would you like foreigners who immigrate to your native country to behave for you to be comfortable?
That is integration.
Now, just flip it to fit finnish culture and society and apply it to yourself.
No, it is not easy. You have to learn how finnish culture and society works. Me? I do not have to. It is hardcoded to me during my early youth, it is natural.
For you to reach that... Sorry, lots of work and effort and time. But that is integration.
Ofcourse, it is not easy and I bloody know that.
I understand your point, the Finnish people who have delt with me for years have always told me that, they never found anything strange about me. They also understand that, it is not possible for me to have a fast learing curve with Finnish language as other foreigners who are imported by their Finnish partners. I cannot afford to speak Finnish in my work; as the people whom I deal with are foreigners.
1. I eat Finnish food and never complained about it. You see, I can't fake liking it for years.
2. I have been to saunna several times with my office pals.
3. I never felt bad about the weather or the sunlight.
4. I prefer to buy only Finnish products.
5. I promote/implement Finnish technology in foreign countries.
6. I understand the basic rules of life here.
7. I pay taxes but, never complained.
8. Never took any benefit money yet from the system.
9. My alcohol intake is good.
10. I don't speak Finnish as I cannot practice. But, want to carry on myself.
11. I cannot have a plastic surgery to change my color. I cannot afford it.
12. I had a Finnish girl who left me for no reason. But, she was honest to admit her mistake. I don't think it was much of a big deal. Things like this happen in life.
Now, could you please tell me what sort of weird creature I am?