I know that region. And those over there who cannot speak Finnish are generally old people who are already at least near grave if not with one leg in it.kathi wrote: There are Finns as well who cannot be bothered learning proper Finnish...try to pay Ostrobothnia a visit and you will know what I mean.
Younger generations are effectively either bilingual or Finnish speakers.
Finnish is hard to learn. It's structure is very different from huge majority of languages. Are you foreigners all averse to difficulty? Do you think my level of English came to me in a dream? Or basic Swedish or German I have managed to grasp?I agree that many foreigners do not
bother to learn Finnish and refuse to accept that things are done differently in Finland but there are also many who try to learn the language and want to integrate. However, it is not very encouraging to learn Finnish when all you hear is that Finnish is so difficult to learn and I know many who would like to spend time with Finnish people but what does
it help if Finnish people do not want to spend time with them?
It swings both ways. For Finns it can be very difficult to learn these languages with structures which make no sense to us. Yet we learn. Less complaining, more working often helps with difficulties.
As for Finns not wanting to spend time with people. It is our right not to spend time with people we do not like. Perhaps foreigners should again pay more attention to Finnish culture and less to their own arse.
Here is that word again... Discriminate. Discriminate this, discriminate that.I have a Finnish fiancé and since I am Nordic most people mistake me for being a Finn so I have not be discriminated as such but i have had to work very hard to really get to know Finnish people since I did not want to isolate myself with other foreigners.
And this time discrimination is not wanting to be around someone!
I guess we Finns do not have right to choose our company either!
This is what I talk about when I say that you foreigners should stop tossing your favorite terms "racism", "prejudice" and "discrimination" around so lightly. You declare things which are essentially aspects of Finnish culture to be "racism/prejudice/discrimination".
Newsflash, overall, Finns are not big fans of huge circles of "friends". Thus, it is hard to get to know people. They have to want to know you first.
I have lived little over 2 years in my current home. I have little to no contact with neighbors. And honestly I do not feel like having much either. Do I discriminate against them too? They are all Finns you see...
So have foreign students lost ability to organize? I recall from my student times that it was students who organized much of social events. And yes, drinking is often very large part of those gatherings.Even the universities create this reputation that foreign students are just in Finland to party by basically only arranging social events that involve getting completely hammered and many events are arranged for foreign students seperately from Finnish parties. I also think there's a difference between being an exchange student in Finland and being a degree student. Many degree students are in fact very hard-working and of course I do not have much sympathy for those who do not want to learn the language or culture.
Perhaps you should acknowledge that it is part of Finnish society, for better and for worse.
And those Finns are problem of those countries. I, or Finland, have no interest, duty or need to interfere with such things. If Finns behave badly in you country, toss them out or whatever your law states. Or treat them like royalty for all we care, just do not expect that we blindly do the same to you.Having said that, Finnish people abrod are not much better. I have met plenty who never bothered to learn the language of the country and who did not want
to spend time with locals or even other foreigners. But of course not all Finns are like that as well as not all foreigners isolate themselves in Finland. Generalization is excatly
what leads to discrimination and prejudices.