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Pursuivant
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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by Pursuivant » Mon Jun 24, 2013 11:38 pm

Ronn1e wrote:I met a girl online
And it was a man?


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Something wicked this way comes."

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Ronn1e
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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by Ronn1e » Mon Sep 30, 2013 4:53 pm

roger_roger wrote:
Ronn1e wrote:I met a girl online
Just being curious..... Can I ask what was the website, chatsite, IRC or messaging site ?
All I can say is that it wasn't a dating site.
Pursuivant wrote:
Ronn1e wrote:I met a girl online
And it was a man?
No,unless she's wearing female body every day..LOL you people...

I still read here every now and then...too bad there's so much negativity in a lot of threads.

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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by cors187 » Mon Sep 30, 2013 7:03 pm

Often the truth is negative, there's plenty of sugar coated half truth if that's your thing.

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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by Ronn1e » Mon Sep 30, 2013 7:39 pm

cors187 wrote:Often the truth is negative, there's plenty of sugar coated half truth if that's your thing.
Well I've only noticed how some of the commenters are so bitter and prepared to write something nasty when a question on marriage/immigration is posted. It's like they feel they own Finland and know all about OP private lives sooo much better and try to mock/discourage/intimidate them, even with almost direct insults at times. Calling immigrants - Sofa decorations. Seriously? I just think that's really unnecessary. And even when an advice is given, it's sometimes written in a deprecating way. I don't understand what's with this attitude... Each person comes from a very different background and you can't just universally say - "you're gonna be this, you're gonna be that, because It happened to me/my friends".

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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by cors187 » Tue Oct 01, 2013 9:40 pm

Ronn1e wrote:
cors187 wrote:Often the truth is negative, there's plenty of sugar coated half truth if that's your thing.
Well I've only noticed how some of the commenters are so bitter and prepared to write something nasty when a question on marriage/immigration is posted. It's like they feel they own Finland and know all about OP private lives sooo much better and try to mock/discourage/intimidate them, even with almost direct insults at times. Calling immigrants - Sofa decorations. Seriously? I just think that's really unnecessary. And even when an advice is given, it's sometimes written in a deprecating way. I don't understand what's with this attitude... Each person comes from a very different background and you can't just universally say - "you're gonna be this, you're gonna be that, because It happened to me/my friends".
What many dont understand except finns ofcourse is that its the real nature of finland, except in the outside community no one says it to each others faces.

Theres a real touch of reality from the Finnish comments, and yes they think immigrants cant learn the language good enough and will always be passively discriminated against , which is true for the most part.
If you were to read most of my posts you will see i often reverse the situation and bag the Finns.Why?, because i can.

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Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by Oho » Wed Oct 02, 2013 11:35 am

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Rick1

Re: Marrying to a finn

Post by Rick1 » Thu Oct 03, 2013 10:05 pm

Ronn1e wrote:
roger_roger wrote:
Ronn1e wrote:I met a girl online
Just being curious..... Can I ask what was the website, chatsite, IRC or messaging site ?
All I can say is that it wasn't a dating site.
Pursuivant wrote:
Ronn1e wrote:I met a girl online
And it was a man?
No,unless she's wearing female body every day..LOL you people...

I still read here every now and then...too bad there's so much negativity in a lot of threads.
For a lot of positive feelings I always go here :http://www.vihreat.fi/english
Or I visit Pekka and his buddy in their humble cottage and have a nice cup of tea.


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