False identities and lies

Missoot · Post by **Missoot** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:19 pm

Recently a man was looking for his Finnish wife a woman he claims lied about her identity and her entire lifes history. I was dumfounded by some of the response attacking him. If what this man says is true.I suspect thier is much more to the story than he could tell us. Lying to your husband or wife about your identity and history is very serious. Not to mention the repercusions to those who trusted you. I find absolutley nothing wrong with this man seeking the truth he deserves. What is amazing is his blog was shut down.Oh what a web we weave when we set out to decieve.

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Amandine.K · Post by **Amandine.K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 4:51 pm

Funny how you joined today just to post that

Jenni K · Post by **Jenni K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:06 pm

What is happening to we Finns! I thought we were free thinkers. Are we to assume everyone is a liar? I just joined for the very reason as I wanted to chine in. Perhaps this AmandineK knows who this woman is.

mCowboy · Post by **mCowboy** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:08 pm

Jenni K wrote:What is happening to we Finns! I thought we were free thinkers. Are we to assume everyone is a liar? I just joined for the very reason as I wanted to chine in. Perhaps this AmandineK knows who this woman is.

Funny how you just joined here today too...

Amandine.K · Post by **Amandine.K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:10 pm

No I have no idea who this woman is. As I said earlier if she left the guy she has her reason not to be found. This obsession about finding out where she is, posting her details on the internet, name, address, and what else... that's what disturbs me. As I'm actually pretty sure he could be sued for that! The divorce has been pronounced. Deal with it!

Jenni K · Post by **Jenni K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:14 pm

[quote="Amandine.K"]No I have no idea who this woman is. As I said earlier if she left the guy she has her reason not to be found. This obsession about finding out where she is, posting her details on the internet, name, address, and what else... that's what disturbs me. As I'm actually pretty sure he could be sued for that! The divorce has been pronounced. Deal with it![/quote] I looked into it and her date of birth was posted already at some school in states. Also her name and that she is from Vantaa. Isnt she the one who should be sued? Seems like she may have screwed this guy good.

Amandine.K · Post by **Amandine.K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:18 pm

Why should she be sued? She left the guy without leaving an address... Hardly ground for suing right? Or then he hasn't told us she ran away with all his money or that she was launedring money...

Jenni K · Post by **Jenni K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:20 pm

I agree he could be a jerk. But if what he said is true than she should have to answer some questions. It seems to me that lying to the government is a bigger problem. I live in Porvoo and attended Helium. I never heard of her and none of my friends either.

Amandine.K · Post by **Amandine.K** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:32 pm

What does that proove? I mean I go to Stadia and don't even know all the students in the other years of my program (and we're what? 100 max?). Do you know every single person who attend your school?)

mCowboy · Post by **mCowboy** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 5:52 pm

I don't go to any school and I haven't heard from any of you people...

Hank W. · Post by **Hank W.** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:15 pm

Jenni K wrote:I live in Porvoo and attended Helium.

You must have a brain that floats then.

mCowboy · Post by **mCowboy** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 6:23 pm

Hank W. wrote:
Jenni K wrote:I live in Porvoo and attended Helium.
You must have a brain that floats then.

are you calling her an airhead? shame on you Hank...

kay30 · Post by **kay30** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 7:46 pm

Whatever happened to that rule about posting all the a.k.a names next to the user name? That sure was a good rule...

mCowboy · Post by **mCowboy** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 7:48 pm

kay30 wrote:Whatever happened to that rule about posting all the a.k.a names next to the user name? That sure was a good rule...

I think if you use a different email address when you register, Neil doesn't know that who it is... that could be tracked by IP addresses but too much work...

Mook · Post by **Mook** » Wed Sep 12, 2007 7:55 pm

Jenni K wrote: It seems to me that lying to the government is a bigger problem.

The government is probably big enough to look after itself. Incidentally, which government?

Jenni K wrote: Seems like she may have screwed this guy good.

Well, it seems that he was too old for her anyway - she can't have been more than 20 when they got "married", so she was really just a child - couldn't even have a legal beer in the states. Maybe the dirty old man just couldn't keep up

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