smilesalot wrote:Megstertex wrote:Don't worry. You don't have to do anything. If you are holding liquor and at a bar, you will get girls, plenty of them. Remember, the roles are reversed here. You no longer have to take initiative, make decisions, or "be a man." They'll do all the work, without you lifting a finger.
Wow it must be paradise, only question is what kind of Homo sapien will a person get without lifting a finger. Another question for "Megstertex" what do you personally define as "being a man"
I remember a quote from a famous poet A man must partly give up being a man with womenfolk ;)
smilesalot
Tell me what gives a man or woman their greatest pleasure and I'll tell you their philosophy of life D. Carnegie
I'll tell you what kind of homo sapiens they are, they are physically beautiful, but don't want to have anything to do with you a day or two later. They don't want you if they can't control you. Their ultimate goal in life, which is never fulfilled, is power.
Being a man, to me is defined as having some kind of autonomy. Cut from the apron strings, he is able to think for himself, make decisions for himself, and he will consider what others think and their advice, but ultimately, he will make decisions for himself, take initiative, and adult responsibility. He may be a little rough around the edges, but has blood pumping through his veins, and testosterone, which I will take any day over a drone. I can assure you it is not heaven for some of us foreigner women in Finland. Many of the men have been trained to be dutiful sons, not equal partners, and certainly not the more assertive of the two sexes. Perhaps this is why many must import submissive or even resort to "buying" women who will be their slaves from other countries. This is what I have seen in the younger age group, but in no way do I mean to apply it to all Finnish men or all Finnish women. However, this seems to be more the norm than not among many I have met.
Believe me, 20 years of experience of hanging out in bars. No dice... except once when I was married (of course). Ktulu can tell how well the pull goes when you're speaking English... and how flat one drops switching to local. 
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