i have a phd offer from both italy and from finland. i am really unable to decide which one to choose and its killing me from inside. i really do not want to regret later. i request you to please guide me through the process. some facts are as follows.
1) as i have said i have offers from both finland (university of turku) and from italy (university of parma). in italy and in finland i have funding for 1 year initially.
2) both the research topics are interesting.
3) financial position: in finland i get 1400 euros compared to 1250 in italy.
4) food is awesome in italy

5) i am planning to get married next year. i think in finland my wife could atleast study if do nothing else.
6) in italy the phd is for 3 years where as in finland it is for 4 years.
i have added all the points i know of that could be a deciding factor in this. i really really need your thoughts on this so that i could take a decision which i do not regret later.
thanks for your time and patience.