Do the police tell people who you were involved in some trouble with, but it's all gone and over with legally, where you are when you go to apply for a permit? Do they just go up to people and say "So and so is in the country. We feel you should know in case they try something?". (AS IF I WOULD!!!!!!!! I am doing *nothing* but living my life in peace) I am not about to go any place near them or start any trouble whatsoever. If they find out I am there, they will harass me beyond belief, possibly make some wild accusations about me to the police all totally unfounded and unjustified. It's a very long and complicated story, but seriously, do the police making the registration and checks etc, just go and tell people who were involved in things which are most definitely done and dusted, over with and offically closed, your address and the fact you are in the country and applying for a permit? Don't I have a right to request they don't tell people? Will they do that automatically anyway?
Secondly.
Does it affect your permit application if you live alone with someone who is almost 18 and you are an adult? I guess I am randomly scared of stuff. This one scares me completely.
Should I give up on my dream of living in beautiful Finland? I don't deserve all this nonsense from insane idiots who are irrational and falsely believe when something has been deemed offically closed by law, that they can just reopen it at will without any proof, which they can never obtain. This situation is tricky and complicated and it also doesn't help that I have decided to leave England on a permanent basis and I don't have an address to give them when I make the permit. I wonder how all of this is going to look. I am no threat to those who I was involved with and they will only threaten, possibly accuse and hurt me. Can I request my details be kept quiet? Can I just tell them not to tell those people else I risk some serious harassment? Do I even have a right to go to Finland at all? I want to be there and I am a model citizen and always have been. I made one mistake which the law deemed not even a mistake, but those people hunger for my blood. I deserve peace and freedom. Anyone know how all these things might affect my application of right of residence and can those people accusing me of random whatsits without proof etc go against me?
Well, thanks a lot, things are tricky, I don't really want to give up my hopes at all as I feel one vindicated mistake shouldn't ruin my life when in the eyes of the law it wasn't even an investigatable offense and was completely cancelled less than a week that it happened. I know I am in for a rocky time and a lot of harassment etc. Do I just give up my dreams?

Anyone who can advise even the slightest pls help me stay strong and have hope. I am not hurting anyone and I don't believe those people should know I am in Finland or where I live there.