I need advice urgent about my situation please

[Hank W.]

What this Zakaria guy needs is a good kick up the arse... nobody had the bottle to say it.

You need to go find your inner racist. Ain't there a touchy-feely redneck seminar up in your parts for that

BTW its that woman that needs it up the arse if you ask me. Serial summer-man abuser she is.

[sinikala]

What this Zakaria guy needs is a good kick up the arse... nobody had the bottle to say it.

You need to go find your inner racist. Ain't there a touchy-feely redneck seminar up in your parts for that

Why racist? I myself is black. For all I know Zakaria could look like Andy Warhol.

It's the fact that he comes cross as a git that few others have picked up on... it took me several pages to believe he is anything other than a WUM.

[mCowboy]

What this Zakaria guy needs is a good kick up the arse... nobody had the bottle to say it.

You need to go find your inner racist. Ain't there a touchy-feely redneck seminar up in your parts for that

BTW its that woman that needs it up the arse if you ask me. Serial summer-man abuser she is.

stop it Hank, only the Finns in this site are racist according to the site's self proclaimed shrink, who shall remain nameless...

[sinikala]

BTW its that woman that needs it up the arse if you ask me. Serial summer-man abuser she is.

Quite possibly, but she ain't posting here is she? The world is full of ball breakers... which is why you don't get married and move halfway round the globe the drop of a Havana hat.

Finding out she had been married to an import before should have set some alarm bells ringing.

[Hank W.]

which is why you don't get married and move halfway round the globe the drop of a Havana hat.

OK, lets visualise... sandy beaches, palm trees, cigars, rum...

Viva Fidel!
... 7 hours of speech...
Viva Fidel!

I think I'd move before I had enough coupons to buy a hat... now how many old skool limeys you've met - these "lifers" that escaped the thatcherite Britain? And for what reason? Yeah... I'd escaped Kekkoslovakia and they came here. Mad as a box of frogs... dipped in marmite and custard...

I'd married any airhead bint for the green card ten-fifteen years ago.

[mCowboy]

I'd married any airhead bint for the green card ten-fifteen years ago.

hear, hear...

[sinikala]

which is why you don't get married and move halfway round the globe the drop of a Havana hat.

OK, lets visualise... sandy beaches, palm trees, cigars, rum...

Viva Fidel!
... 7 hours of speech...
Viva Fidel!

I think I'd move before I had enough coupons to buy a hat... now how many old skool limeys you've met - these "lifers" that escaped the thatcherite Britain? And for what reason? Yeah... I'd escaped Kekkoslovakia and they came here. Mad as a box of frogs... dipped in marmite and custard...

I'd married any airhead bint for the green card ten-fifteen years ago.

So you are suggesting that his motives for moving here were not just due to true love, but to escape Cuba?

One "No !"#¤%, Sherlock - award of the week" is in the post already.

[Hank W.]

The motives of man are untold.

Motives of crazy Finnish women are told repeatedly 24/7 though...

[Goldie]

OH.

MY.

GOD.

I don't think I've every wanted to crack skulls together as much as reading the last two pages of TRIPE that I have just encountered. Pavlor and his whiny moaning got you all going. You all just bit in and started chewing on each other! Wake up to yourselves! Nobody was kicking Zakaria up the rear end or even hinting at it until Pavlor tripped your damned Narky switches.

Apparently it's numbered point time.

1. Um sinikala... pavlor... Zakaria is terribly underknowledged in the marriage/women/wife/Finland department. Ok no prizes for knowing that one. But in many countries, fathers have nothing to do with childbirth except providing sperm. Women go to doctors, not men. It's not that ridiculous for a father to have attended no appointments.

My own father has never cooked a dinner, washed up, used a vacuum cleaner, turned on the washing machine... never fed cereal to a baby and sure as hell didn't go to any birth class or doctor's appointment.

2. Wife seems to be a complete fruitcake. Nothing is logical or easy when you're dealing with one of them.

3. Have you ever tried to take a wife to marriage counselling when she yells in your face every time she sees you, won't even spend ten minutes a day in your company and constantly tells you that you're useless for not earning any money? I think she would tell him to get the flip out of the house and not to return.

4. Why isn't anyone telling Zakaria that he is wonderful for wanting to bring up his child, care for his wife, and earn an honest living with legal permission?

5. The woman is pregnant... it's not fake... she has a pregnancy diary. Zakaria didn't know what it was. She could have fooled him without it.

6. If you wanted to get out of Cuba, would you really choose bloody FINLAND, a country on the other side of the world where you don't know the language? Hello? I think the USA is a bit closer and more useful, wouldn't you marry a nice American girl? Or British, Irish, South African, New Zealander, Canadian, Australian, oooh if English isn't it, how about all the places speaking your own native language? Oh and look, Finnish seems to be at number 472...

*cracks some skulls mentally*

BTW. Pavlor, I believe Zakaria actually posted that he had a job offer, but that the employer could not take him on because the residency thing is still up in the air.

*takes a deep breath*

At least you had the guts to post your thoughts, even if they are warped.

You know what they say, “Ignorance is Bliss!”

[Pavlor]

What this Zakaria guy needs is a good kick up the arse... nobody had the bottle to say it.

You need to go find your inner racist. Ain't there a touchy-feely redneck seminar up in your parts for that

Why racist? I myself is black. For all I know Zakaria could look like Andy Warhol.

It's the fact that he comes cross as a git that few others have picked up on... it took me several pages to believe he is anything other than a WUM.

Blacks can be racist too. Odd you should have the "get out of jail card" if you are black... My family is a hotchpotch of "ethnic" divisions.

[Pavlor]

...That isn't patronising in my books. I do not troll...

B u l l s h i t !

Pity there's no "ignore" -option in this forum. The level of FF would rise if Pavlov's dog would leave this forum.

You are a wonder, Mark. I mean that in all its senses...

[Pavlor]

I don't think I've every wanted to crack skulls together as much as reading the last two pages of TRIPE that I have just encountered. Pavlor and his whiny moaning got you all going. You all just bit in and started chewing on each other! Wake up to yourselves! Nobody was kicking Zakaria up the rear end or even hinting at it until Pavlor tripped your damned Narky switches.

You see, Tummansininen, you seem to get it, but the *darlings* of this forum don't (too self-obsessed? important? dim?). I have stated what I try to do on this forum in a conversation in another thread with Sinikala, but I was called this, that and the other by the *darlings*. Fine by me as long as people start pulling their heads out their arses and begin communicating actively. Not sure whether to thank you Tummansininen or that make come across as patronising...

[Pavlor]

I have to ask in light of recent activity here: are you challenged in any way, mCowboy? I am being sincere when asking that so don't fly off the handle.

Bad-mouthing? I called you *darlings*... Hardly bad-mouthing in my opinion

So you keep on patronizing...

I can accept sarcastic remarks from my friends, however coming from someone who obviously has something against me, they are just snippy personal attacks.

Nothing against you, mCowboy. I think you underestimate me in that department. Plus, you obviously overestimate my feelings towards you. You aren't important enough... I genuinely asked if you were challenged as you seem never to understand what I write. If you look at my posts, they are, for the most part, genuine. I word posts with intention. Yes, I may have strong opinions, and I say what I think, never beating around the bush, but I fire people up and get people to say stuff.

Get over yourself mCowboy.

[Pavlor]

In future, mCowboy, it'd be best for everyone if you stayed away from my posts, or at least refrain from responding to them.

So it's do as I say, not as I do?

Practise what you preach dear boy.

Life is all about making decisions, Sinikala, dear.

[mCowboy]

Nothing against you, mCowboy. I think you underestimate me in that department. Plus, you obviously overestimate my feelings towards you. You aren't important enough... I genuinely asked if you were challenged as you seem never to understand what I write. If you look at my posts, they are, for the most part, genuine. I word posts with intention. Yes, I may have strong opinions, and I say what I think, never beating around the bush, but I fire people up and get people to say stuff.

Get over yourself mCowboy.

If I overestimated your feelings towards me, why did you mention in another thread that you've been talking about me with your friends etc. I think you're just on a quest to find your evil advisory which you think you can then masterfully disgrace in front the people and you picked me because I seem represent to you the world that you hate. For someone who says he doesn't presume, you presume awfully lot.

There's a difference between saying what you think and provoking people just for your own pleasure. You've said that in more than one of your posts. That's just sad, that someone has to get their kicks by that way.