If you are in the legal seperation phase, are you allowed to go to KELA and get the daycare amount you pay reduced?
I think my payments for my son should go down a bit at least. But do I have to wait till the divorce goes through to get this organised?
Also, I will not have full custody. My son has a great Father who he will be spendng as much time with as possible. He's Father would keep him if he could. Does having joint custody affect the daycare payments? Our son will reside with me. I mean he's registered as residing with me.
We do not have any papers drawn up about anything. It's not me wanting the divorce, but there's been no fighting and we both trust each other. I am the one losing out the most, but this doesn't bother me. I am more concerned with what comes afterwards and in that regard my son and myself are being taken care of very well. I was told that you can generally trust Finnish men when they make a promise. Am I being naive? I fully trust my soon to be ex. He's not a bad man and I don't blame him for his feelings changing. I accept and have forgiven in that regard, but I don't want to be screwed over. So far he has kept all promises he has made.