sammy wrote:
But some are, and exactly the same is true of some foreigners towards us. It's hardly fair to say that either "side" would be blameless...
And have I ever stated opposite? Alas, claims of racism and prejudice have become default answer of great many foreigners, and Finns who like to consider themselves "enlightened" whenever mentioned foreigners fail.
...still I sort of see what you mean. It's a difficult equation, however, since it would also be rather naive to think that "furriners" moving to Finland should somehow abandon their own language, culture and identity. Sure, if I were to move to Italy the first things on my priority list would be to learn the language etc - but despite this I rather fear that I'd still be considered a foreigner for a long long time, because just "knowing" about this or that aspect of the "Italian culture" (whatever that means) does not as such a) make me "Italian" or b) eliminate the way I think, behave, and what have you because of my personal / cultural background.
Who is asking that? Nobody. You are trying to put up a strawman argument here.
Let's be honest, I do not think that about 80-90% of foreigners can ever reach level where they would be "Finns".
This does not mean they cannot learn to speak Finnish or act along lines of Finnish community.
Foreigner is foreigner, but if they do not even know how to present themselves in Finnish society, how the hell they could be hired for any job which requires some kind of contact with natives?
You do not need to lose your own cultural background to be able to live in country with other culture. I myself believe it to be rather impossible even, as culture forms very fundamental part of our personality and identity.
But you CAN learn to adjust your behavior to fit local culture. Call it pretending if you wish, or whatever else.
I mean, those that want to stay there probably do have themselves to blame a bit if they do not make the language/culture effort you mention - but it's not fair to assume all would even think of staying.
Which, incidentally, is probably one of the reasons for the fee trial...
I do not care if they stay or not. But then again, I fully support requirement for them to pay their tuition fees, and preferably ones which should cover notable part of their studies.
As for Finns studying abroad. I do not see why they should be treated any differently. Each nation will have the laws and systems it wants. If they expect tuition fee from Finns, let Finns who want to study there come up with that cash. If not, fine.
I do not see any point in concerning ourselves over how other countries do things. Sometimes they may have ideas which could be useful to implement in Finland, but doing things just because others do it is idiotic.