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by Sol » Sat Jan 15, 2011 9:24 pm
I think some people have never gotten past the culture shock.
I am a foreigner and I have been living in Finland for almost 2 years now. I don't think all Finns are racist. I had been living in two different foreign countries before coming to Finland and everywhere I go, I find the same thing: Foreigners whining about the new country they are living in.
It's actually really amusing at times because I had been living in the USA for a long time and I remember that there was always this comment at school or in the workplace that all foreigners in america should adapt and speak English and not Spanish or any other language because English is the language of America (debatable, but that is not the point of my post here). Anyway, it is amusing because I have met SOME Americans here who agree with the comment above, but they get offended when they are told the same thing: To speak Finnish or Swedish because those are the official languages.
It's all good to people when they are on the easy side of things, but when roles are reversed, there is so much whining.
I am really happy about living in Finland. I can say I have adapted to Finnish culture and learned the customs here. This has made my life easier.
My priority at school is to learn Finnish (which I can almost speak fluently) because whether I like it or not, that is the language here and I don't see why Finns have to adapt to my needs. It was my choice to come here.
I take Finn's "cold" attitude as giving me my private space. I like that...I dont feel like being bothered with small talk during the bus or train ride. I think people mistake Finn's directness for rudeness. They aren't rude, people just say exactly what they want and expect you to give them a direct answer.
The nice thing about Finland is that no matter who you are, if you adapt to the culture, learn the language, and work as hard as everybody else does, you will be accepted and you will have an easier time because I find that Finland appreciates a hard worker no matter where you come from (this is especially true if you go and live in Northern Finland).
It shames me to say this sometimes, but if Finns are sometimes rude to foreigners, I think some people deserve it. They just come here and whine and victimize themselves and dont take a moment to reflect and realize that people here are just doing their jobs.
In general, people are people no matter where you go. Yeah, I am not saying Finns are holy...no body is perfect and you will find an a**hole every now and then. But, that is life. Nobody is going to give it to you on a silver platter so quit your whining.
Maybe if less foreigners whined, more Finns would be happy to help you out with a friendly face. But all this whining has earned foreigners (deserved or not) a bad reputation.