Options for moving to Finland

[rinso]

If she wants to move here, then her boyfriend would also have agreed to this and if those 2 ideals are in agreement then he should by the definition of being the man, being the citizen in the proposed country and being in a situation to actively support her to come, should do the invitation and meet with her.

I'm not talking about milking or taking advantage, I'm talking about helping you getting things sorted out.
I always think it is weird that people ask complete strangers for help when they have a relation with a Finn. If he is not willing to put time and effort into your problem, then I fear for your relationship.

and specially when you never met him/her before.

[Kutittaa]

There's still a big problem about funding for me though. I'd need a lot of money, like one commenter said. Unlimited funds because I can't work in Finland even if I studied there.

"Kutittaa" is known to be bit negative sometimes.

I prefer the term 'brutally honest'. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

As others have said, your chance of getting across the border are entirely up to your boyfriend's level of commitment. His input and determination will be the level of success that you have in attaining the ability to live in Finland. If that isn't up to scratch and he doesn't show much effort then you aren't going to be missing out on much... Your only real hope to marry if you cannot find some sort of student degree eg. as well as show the 6000e requirement a year as previously stated. You're really fighting an uphill battle here.

I won't apologise for my brutal honesty but I will throw you a warm 'good luck!' that is about the most any of us can do for you I am afraid. The rest is up to your boyfriend and if he doesn't know he better find out.