i need help moving to finland!

[Kunze15]

ive been dating my girlfriend 2 years and now shes losing herself becoming depressed and wont even talk to me anymore... no matter what i try

she has a history of suicidal attempts...

i live in America

long story short i need to get there asap but i have no money!


please help...

[TwoThree]

- Find a job at McDonald's
- Save up enough for a plane ticket to Finland (with a return date no later than 90 days after departure)
- Fly to your beloved

Or, you know, if you're in touch with a family member of hers, write them and tell them about her poor mental state.

[rinso]

i have no money!


please help...

What do you expect from us? Money

[Kunze15]

shes in Pietarsaari, Finland

whats the local help number there? and i don't really speak Finnish cause i was still learning from her...


thanks....

[Oombongo]

Are you sure she is not toying with you?
perhaps she got a sackbuddy in reality and this is her way to get rid of you? You never know.

[rinso]

If you are sincerely worried she might hurt herself contact the Finnish social services and ask them to check her out.

You can start from her local health center (terveysasema).

shes in Pietarsaari, Finland

whats the local help number there? and i don't really speak Finnish cause i was still learning from her...

And what would be the response of these services to an phone call in English from the US?
When her family/friend in Finland don't think it is necessary to take actions why would they respond to you?
If she has a history that is troublesome, her relatives/friends would already keep an eye on her.

Oombongo's suggestion looks much more realistic.