A sensitive situation

lkpro91 · Post by **lkpro91** » Fri Apr 22, 2016 3:06 pm

[update] I decided to delete the post as the problem is solved and it's a sensitive situation

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betelgeuse · Post by **betelgeuse** » Fri Apr 22, 2016 3:42 pm

lkpro91 wrote: So our question is: in case she is pregnant, how can we do an abortion in Helsinki, in the fast and safe way?
(Please don't judge us if this is the case as we are still young and naive)

You start with any of the following:

"AB 1 forms are available at your local health center, occupational or student health care services, or from a private doctor."

Which one depends on your individual circumstances and requires more information (are you a student, worker etc).

http://www.hus.fi/en/medical-care/medic ... fault.aspx

lkpro91 · Post by **lkpro91** » Fri Apr 22, 2016 4:10 pm

We are international students in Finland. So is she allowed to do the abortion?
By the way, can you enlighten us about where we can do it (if possible) and how much we expect to pay for it?

betelgeuse · Post by **betelgeuse** » Fri Apr 22, 2016 6:49 pm

lkpro91 wrote:We are international students in Finland. So is she allowed to do the abortion?

By the way, can you enlighten us about where we can do it (if possible)

Your questions are least partly answered by the link I already gave you. Read it again and ask for the remaining stuff that's not clear.

lkpro91 wrote: and how much we expect to pay for it?

Are you covered by Kela, EHIC or private insurance?

Beep_Boop · Post by **Beep_Boop** » Fri Apr 22, 2016 7:29 pm

While betelgeuse has covered the practicalities, I'll just tell you to calm down. It's completely normal to be late even a week or a bit more, no matter what your age is. It has to do with hormonal changes, mental state and well being, general life stress, etc.

Oombongo · Post by **Oombongo** » Sat Apr 23, 2016 5:49 pm

nobody is going to judge you. Those who do can go fawk themselves to the farthest part of the universe.

I agree with Beep. Sometimes the periods are late due to variety of reasons. I was also in the similar situation despite using condom. Her aunt flo was late in town 38 days, and since I am not planning to have kids under no circumstances.

If you are unsure then you can always check the base of condom after sex (and if you ejaculated in it).
and let us know what did the test say.

lkpro91 · Post by **lkpro91** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 10:36 am

Thank you guys for kind advice.
Everything is back to normal now as the test result was negative and my gf got period again.
What an experience!

Upphew · Post by **Upphew** » Wed Apr 27, 2016 11:03 am

lkpro91 wrote:Thank you guys for kind advice.
Everything is back to normal now as the test result was negative and my gf got period again.
What an experience!

Now you wear a condom just to kiss? I would..

Samer2010 · Post by **Samer2010** » Thu Apr 28, 2016 2:11 am

Oombongo wrote:nobody is going to judge you. Those who do can go fawk themselves to the farthest part of the universe.

Hats off to you for stating that SO openly !

[/quote]Now you wear a condom just to kiss? I would..[/quote]

That's a good one

Samer2010 · Post by **Samer2010** » Thu Apr 28, 2016 2:12 am

Samer2010 wrote:
Oombongo wrote:nobody is going to judge you. Those who do can go fawk themselves to the farthest part of the universe.
Hats off to you for stating that SO openly !

Upphew wrote:Now you wear a condom just to kiss? I would..
That's a good one

Samer2010 · Post by **Samer2010** » Thu Apr 28, 2016 2:13 am

Oombongo wrote:nobody is going to judge you. Those who do can go fawk themselves to the farthest part of the universe.

Hats off to you for stating that SO openly !

Upphew wrote:Now you wear a condom just to kiss? I would..

That's a good one

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