The agent at the Maistraatti desk had no idea what she was talking about, and it was like having a conversation with a brick wall. She refused to allow me to register as living at my boyfriend's address, because I can't prove that he and I have lived together for 2 years already. She had no idea that the Intimate Relationship RP even existed. Additionally, I couldn't quite get her to see the logical need for there to be a first day that my boyfriend and I are documented as living together, if there's some pre-existing requirement to have been together for two years. She was obstinate, not very intelligent nor well informed about her own job.
The migri.fi website indicates that I need to register my address if I stay longer than 90 days in Finland, but Maistraatti is refusing to allow me to comply with that rule. This means I will no longer be "in status" and sets me up to have grounds for deportation. How can I get around this? Do I go to a maistraatti office in another city? Is there somewhere above this woman's head that I can go, where someone might be more helpful?
edit to add: I'm not trying to get free goodies from Finnish tax dollars. I just need to be able to get mail from Migri when they send us the questionnaires about our relationship and other official documents. I was told those need to be sent by mail, and I need my address registered for that.
Many thanks to anyone who has some ideas for me
