Tried swapping out the old switch for the new dimmer and blew a fuse in the fusebox. Landlord came while I was away and took the new switch off, replaced the fuse. When I got back and tried to put the old switch back on so I at least have some light while I'm trying to figure out what the problem is, it didn't work. Now I can't even get the OLD light switch to work.
Landlord said the switchbox is where all the power to the room comes in, and the dimmer couldn't handle that so the fuse blew. He said I need a type 5 switch and said I can't put a dimmer in...though I find it very hard to believe that there's NO WAY to install a dimmer switch. I also don't know why I need a type 5 switch when my old switch was working just fine. Unless he said that IF I want to install a dimmer, it needs to be a type 5. I dunno...my roommate relayed the message, so it's a bit unclear.
Soooo...I need to make these (I numbered them with tape so I could keep track of what is what):

go into here:



6 wires into 3 holes doesn't really work.
The original switch looked like this:




...so as you can see, I'm not sure why there area total of six wires (four black wires and two grey wires, tips of the two greys connected with a sugarcube) coming out of the switchbox. There is one grey and one black coming from the bottom of the switchbox, and one grey and THREE blacks coming down from the top. What happened to having just a positive, a negative, and a ground??? I'm suspecting that it's double wired for two different lights, since it's a double switch (though it always only worked for the ceiling light).
AAAAActually, now that I'm thinking about it, I just realised that there's a power outlet below the switch that doesn't work at the moment; I think the wires coming up from the bottom of the switchbox go to the outlet, and the ones coming from the top go to the main ceiling-mounted light in the room. Though still, this is confusing because that would mean that there are two wires (the one grey and one black coming from the bottom) connected to the outlet, and four wires (the other grey and three other blacks coming down from the top) connected to the ceiling fixture. That still leaves me with four wires coming from the ceiling light, when I only know what to do with three

Grey is usually ground and black is hot, but I'm too nervous to test them with my electricity tester.
Funny enough, imprinted on the back of the plastic "cup" of the switchbox that holds all the wiring and the back end of the switch, I saw this:

Yet as you can see, the old switch says "10/250~" and the new switch says "230V~" ("~" means AC or "Alternating Current").
The "380V" marking on the plastic *could* mean either that's the maximum for that piece of material, OR it could mean that in fact, that is the voltage running through those wires, in which case I don't want to use the electricity screwdriver to see if the wires are hot, 'cause it's only rated up to 250V.
Phew.
I want my lights to work!
I don't think I'm going to touch anything else myself; if this was a normal switch I could do it, but apparently it's not. The building was built in the 30s, so who knows what's going on. We've called someone who will be coming by, but I want to understand what the heck is going on with the wiring in the meantime.