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Re: SINGLE MUM-PROBLEMS????
Maybe you should start respecting and believing in yourself. Dont keep on thinking you cant live without him. There are and there will be thousands of single-moms here and everywhere in the world. The child will grow up to know his dad if he wants 
Re: SINGLE MUM-PROBLEMS????
Hi
Firstly, regarding the father issue, your son will always have a father regardless if he lives with you or not, so your son can have a relationship with him. Also, it is not uncommon for parents to be divorced in Finland so your child will not be alone.
Secondly, the money issue, you have a child so you will be entitles to social support, which will be enough to get started. So you will need to connect Social service and kela.
Thirdly, as for your boyfriend, it sounds like he is embarrassed and annoyed that he was caught, so he has decided to pretend it never happened.
Fourthly, dampa is correct you need to start believing in yourself, prepare to move on without your boyfriend and see how he reacts.
Firstly, regarding the father issue, your son will always have a father regardless if he lives with you or not, so your son can have a relationship with him. Also, it is not uncommon for parents to be divorced in Finland so your child will not be alone.
Secondly, the money issue, you have a child so you will be entitles to social support, which will be enough to get started. So you will need to connect Social service and kela.
Thirdly, as for your boyfriend, it sounds like he is embarrassed and annoyed that he was caught, so he has decided to pretend it never happened.
Fourthly, dampa is correct you need to start believing in yourself, prepare to move on without your boyfriend and see how he reacts.
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Re: SINGLE MUM-PROBLEMS????
you have to make a decision sooner or later (better sooner).
if your son grows up in a family where there is no respect/love between the partners, he's much worse of than living alone with his mom and maybe see his father only during holidays.
if your son grows up in a family where there is no respect/love between the partners, he's much worse of than living alone with his mom and maybe see his father only during holidays.
Re: SINGLE MUM-PROBLEMS????
I have friends who are single mothers, and they are doing very well without any regrets, believe me when its time to let go then it is. Maybe you should make your own decision. First think what you want and what is best for your son. Don't hang in there when there is nothing to hold for. I believe that moving out will be hardest thing to do, but its your choice, whether to live in a relationship that you are not happy or to move out
If you wish to convince people of something, it is more useful to be entertaining than to be right