I believe many children actually did "work" - not necessarily with a hammer or a spade, but in some ways that profited the day-to-day survival of the family. I don't think "free time" as we know it really existed back then.kay30 wrote:Then again, have parents ever had enough time for their kids? What about when they had to work on farms? Did they all work together?
Time with kids... no-one has more than 24 hours per day anyway. The crux of the problem might be that many parents are desperately trying to entertain their kids, giving them "quality time" (I detest the Finnish term laatuaika...) and trying to buy their affection with the latest model of NinjaTendo game cube or whatever - when all they "need" is normal day-to-day life together with their parents, in a safe family environment, and a sense that their parents are genuinely interested in how they are doing & feeling.
But tell this to your kids when all the others in the neigbourhood already have the said NinjaTendo box... mind you did anybody spot the ads just recently... can't remember which company it was (ha! a bad advertisement!) but there were pictures of sultry teenagers, caption being "ota nyt tohon kontaktia" (free translation "you mean, try to be in touch with him/her?") - and the "solution" was to buy some new internet gadget or a mobile phone...



As ye reap...