I have been a bit shy to post to these forums for years, so for a while I have been reading, and reading, and reading instead, especially lately... but eventually I thought that I could write here and ask a few questions directly. I have learned a lot of useful information from these pages, yet I am a bit confused about some things and have many open question marks...
I am an Italian based in the UK and with some family ties with Finland. I have been married for 3.5 years to a Finnish lady (from Hollola, Lahti), and we've been thinking for a while to move to Finland so to be closer to family and friends.Unfortunately, despite we have been in the UK for a relatively long time (~7 years myself and ~10 my wife), we have mostly settled OK but we have never managed too well to build some good friendships here... so all of our friends are Finnish as a result, but almost all have moved back to Finland over the years. We have often friends coming to stay here for a few weeks, or months, or the typical gap year, but everybody just comes and goes. This, together with other reasons, makes it more difficult for us to feel "at home" here despite having been here for so long. So we are now thinking to move to Finland in a few months, although we haven't actually committed to a definite decision yet. We need to think it through, especially concerning money etc.
We know that it's not going to be easy to move to Finland (heck, even my wife is wondering about this since she's been in the UK for too long!), but we feel that we would be happier if we were closer to family and friends, plus we have two small kids (2yrs and 1 month) and we feel schools, social care, health care etc are better in Finland, so as a family we would like to give it a try.We can of course get a lot of support from family and friends, but I feel that some foreigners who have made the experience of moving to Finland and starting from scratch, may be able to help more easily with some of our issues, given our particular situation. So expect me to be around here more often and participate more actively in the future

The main question marks are - not surprisingly - around the subject 'work'. While my wife of course speaks perfect Finnish, I only speak a 3-4 year old child's Finnish, so I wouldn't absolutely say I would be confident to work in a Finnish speaking environment from day 1 (to give you an idea, if I watch selkouutiset instead of the regular news, I miss a good 50%

As for the skills and background, I am an experienced web developer (10+ years) who's worked in positions such as lead architect and lead of small teams of developers; I currently work as lead web developer for the UK for a company that sells web based software for leveraging virtualisation in Internet based services such as cloud computing and CDN. My role is that of the lead architect and, at the same time, scrum master/project manager for our team in the UK (we also have dev teams in other countries), but I am still very heavily involved in the coding all the time (well, I love it), especially with the testing, and for quality control. I've worked with many technologies and tools over the years, although for the past few years I have settled on Ruby and related tools and methodologies. In short, I think I am fairly well experienced with anything that has to do with the web, from development to scaling through security.
So the first question I'd like to ask is: are there any Ruby developers, or devs with a similar background in this forum, whom I could get in touch with? I haven't found any by just searching or reading the forums.
In particular, I would like to know what I should expect with my background and skills. How does the IT market (in particular for Internet businesses) look like at the moment?
Also, I have been looking at several job sites, but I get depressed each time as they seem to confirm that not many Finnish companies use to advertise their open vacancies on such sites, as they usually do here in the UK. Is this true or is it a wrong assumption? Would you still recommend to look for a job using these sites or would you suggest something else?
Actually, there is the possibility I might be able to take my job with me to Finland, and work remotely. I already work from home a day or two almost each week, so I don't think it would be too difficult in the end. However, I cannot be sure until I talk with my employer because they may prefer having someone here locally due to the kind of responsibilities involved. For this reason, I want to prepare for the worse and, should we move, assume that I may have to look for a job in Finland instead, and cope with our savings in the meantime.
So... how many chances do you think I may have considering the current market and my background and skills (which are anyway my strength as you may have guessed)? Do you think that for the kind of job I do it will be OK if I use the English language at work until I become as fluent and confident in Finnish? Also, what sort of salary do you think I could expect given my skills and experience? I'd like just a rough idea, since I have seen conflicting figures here and there so I am a bit confused about it. Of course, having two kids I will likely take the first job I find at first... (and then look for something better while working, if need be), but for the same reason I need to find out what would be a reasonable salary for my skills and experience and to be able to care for my family as I can now.
To give more context, we are thinking to move likely to Espoo or Vantaa, so to be close enough to Helsinki.
On last thing (well, for now


We aren't new to Finland, and we know it very well for many aspects, so in a way we don't really need to be told or be reminded that it may be difficult, since we already know

We've just been too long away in the UK and that's why I feel some of you may be able to give advice more easily on some things, than our family and friends in Finland would.
Thanks a lot in advance!